I don't believe you can instantly be in love with someone. Not unless you have weird Abe Sapien like powers and can share an entire lifetime in a moment just via touch.
Attraction can be instant, but true love takes time. A lot of people do not get this and this is why we have such high divorce rates.
Originally posted by Surtur
I don't believe you can instantly be in love with someone. Not unless you have weird Abe Sapien like powers and can share an entire lifetime in a moment just via touch.Attraction can be instant, but true love takes time. A lot of people do not get this and this is why we have such high divorce rates.
I applaud you for your wisdom. Anyone that claims to have fallen in love at first sight, are mistaking love for lust.
Originally posted by Surtur
Actions speak louder then words, you need to make me believe your love is pure.
Have you listed to any of my CD's?
Originally posted by Surtur
Actions speak louder then words, you need to make me believe your love is pure.
love is the little day to day things you do for your partner weither they know it or not.
its a feeling of trust and a connection on an indescribable level that just feel right.
honestly love is overdramatised via media and movies and so forth.
its that feeling of happiness you feel when you look into your partners eyes or hold them close.
the feeling of pain if they suffer and feeling desparate when you cannot help them.
I believe that love is a choice, a decision made. That decision may not be conscious, but it is a choice/decision regardless. Given this, I don't believe in instantaneous love. A decision is made and then love begins to whatever degree oneself is able to begin it. Love grows through the decision and choice to pursue further love. Given this belief, falling out of love is a choice/decision as well, conscious or otherwise.
Originally posted by Surtur
I don't believe you can instantly be in love with someone. Not unless you have weird Abe Sapien like powers and can share an entire lifetime in a moment just via touch.Attraction can be instant, but true love takes time. A lot of people do not get this and this is why we have such high divorce rates.
Agreed. Love at first sight is purely attraction, nothing more. I have never looked a woman, and without speaking to her, thought "damn, this woman has got a mind for days son!"