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Originally posted by rudester
When it comes to sex I'm your man but I realized I don't have little to any experience in how to attract a partner without enticing sex; so that's where you come in..How do normal people meet and approach other normal people to form a couple? I have no idea where to start..
How do you approach someone?
What do you talk about?
Do you have any tricks in case you say something stupid?
How do you get to a date?
Do you wait for a kiss? Does it have to be the right moment?
so you want to attract a partner without suggesting sex?
i am more romantic with the girls honestly but with guys i do quick hook ups or maybe something a little more serious. i prefer to be more thoughtful and romantic when it comes to ladies
if you are approaching someone you like or a hot stranger its a little harder (i have known most of my partners). if it all goes well with the stranger get to know them a little more over easy socialising events or actions like coffee, movie, sports, walk around a park, go to markets that kinda thing. if you say something stupid then pray it can be turned around like "oh god that was dumb " after pausing (if you hurt their feelings then good luck to you
if i have been friends with my partner, say paris, then i spend a little more time with her and chat and hang out in easy situations like smoking or just wandering around school (before she left). i chatted to her about alot, religion, funny ideas and stories, how we got our self harm scars, problems... i even told her my darker thins but all in its due time. just talk aout what agree on or find weird or don't share the same beliefs in. if you want to go on a date just ask or imply. "hey, um i have been thinking a bit and i was wondering, you can totally say no to this if you feel like but i was wondering if you maybe wanted to do things a bit more seriously, like a date ?"
don't expect a kiss straight off the bat, its normally a lead up situation where your partner shows they are ready for that kinda of level. hint that you are ready for a kiss but don't be obvious by going for it every time or putting your lips together. instead look into their eyes and if they hold that gaze then don't say anything, try and feel if there is any electricity between you. long post but what ever this stuff is easier in person