Is it ever okay for a man to hit a woman?

Started by Tattoos N Scars3 pages

If you come home from work and the house is a mess and dinner isn't cooked, is it ok to smack the wife around a little bit?

Ha, domestic abuse exists, hilarious. Classic punchline.

The simple answer yes.

The long answer. I grew up with the same morals a lot of people here are saying. You should never hit a woman. They deserve our protection.

But in imo that mind set was horrible. In turns women into objects and objectives instead of people. So now I take them on a case by case scenario. And I would hit a woman for the same reasons I would hit a man. Of course those reasons are few and basically boil down to defending myself or defending someone else if they need it regardless of genders involved.

And I think the most important is the context part. I look at the person instead of the gender and evaluate from there.

Originally posted by Newjak
The simple answer yes.

The long answer. I grew up with the same morals a lot of people here are saying. You should never hit a woman. They deserve our protection.

But in imo that mind set was horrible. In turns women into objects and objectives instead of people.

"I consider you a person, you're not an object in my mind"

*bashes her head in*

Originally posted by Bentley
"I consider you a person, you're not an object in my mind"

*bashes her head in*

"I respect you as a human being!"

*two pieces her*

Yes, if that woman is Bardock42.

Originally posted by Esau Cairn
Women will sometimes abuse the fact that it's not ok to hit them.
They'll deliberately antagonise the situation then cry the victim when push comes to shove.

so, so true

We need to get rid of double standards in gender relations.

The question shouldn't be if it's okay to hit a woman, but if it's okay to hit anyone, and if so, when and why.

Originally posted by Omega Vision
We need to get rid of double standards in gender relations.

The question shouldn't be if it's okay to hit a woman, but if it's okay to hit anyone, and if so, when and why.

dang. you almost sound like a conservative

Yeah, if your definition of 'conservative' is the opposite of what conservative actually means.

Originally posted by Slay
Yeah, if your definition of 'conservative' is the opposite of what conservative actually means.

dang. you almost sound like a human

Originally posted by Bentley
If people are not too scared to ever strike you, you're doing it wrong.
Stupidity always overrides fear.

That's why white people love sailing off the coast of Somalia.

Originally posted by Raisen
dang. you almost sound like a conservative

I don't know what you think a conservative sounds like.

Originally posted by Raisen
dang. you almost sound like a human

dang, you almost sound like you're funny.

dang, this was almost a conversation

I recall having a friend in high school that after becoming comfortable with you would slap, or attempt to slap you in the face, head, etc. I warned her to never do that to me again, and she stopped. I didn't have to escalate the situation to a point that we could not come back from. It is not okay to hit another human being. If a woman hits you and you warn her about it, she should never hit you again. If she continues after that point you get the proper authorities involved, and do whatever you can to stay away from that person. Women are typically weaker than men this is true. That's also not the point.

Originally posted by Tattoos N Scars
If you come home from work and the house is a mess and dinner isn't cooked, is it ok to smack the wife around a little bit?

No.

Originally posted by Tzeentch
Stupidity always overrides fear.

That's why white people love sailing off the coast of Somalia.

Well, if you ignore what it is that you must fear, then you cannot fear it properly. This is why an excellent education system makes a society full of cowards 👆

Originally posted by Bentley
Well, if you ignore what it is that you must fear, then you cannot fear it properly. This is why an excellent education system makes a society full of cowards 👆

You can't exactly turn fear on or off.
It's an inner demon that you must learn when to listen to it & when to ignore it.

Equal rights, equal fights