Originally posted by cdtm
If someone needs an organ, you can't volunteer someone for their kidney.So it's hard to argue a woman should be forced to give herself over as an incubater.
Of course, the reality is more complex, with various agendas and "don't give a ****" finger pointing to go around (As a sexually active male, are you going to back the option that puts you on the hook, or that has a built in exit strategy?), but where's the fun in sublety?
And this is why I don't push the pro-life position in the case of rape, because the woman had no autonomy in that instance, and is in no way responsible for the situation.
What you described to me with the kidney is a false equivalency to most situations, because presumably the hypothetical person someone is trying to volunteer for their kidney is not completely responsible for the situation where this other person needs a kidney. The pregnant woman in this situation has much more of an ethical obligation, being both this child's mother and not just some person, and through being completely responsible for the situation (assuming lack of rape). Plus this would be an active killing of the child as opposed to just not being willing to help.
Men should be held to the same standard though IMO. If you get someone pregnant, then either help them raise the baby, pay child support, or the both of you put it up for adoption.
And I'm sorry this isn't the cheap easy answer some people want where they can go out and **** whoever they want with no consequences because there are always potential consequences for sex and people just have to deal with them. I morally disagree with casual sex, but this isn't me "wanting to punish people for having sex" (which is one of the stupidest accusations I've ever heard), and I actually long for the day when this no longer needs to be a debate because birth control has been perfected or something.