Originally posted by Jmanghan
I said some borderline stalkerish shit cause her parents are hardcore muslims with rules that are too strict such as "no internet friends, no facebook, no getting any job unless we approve, no coming down downstairs."I was utterly pissed at the time and said I was gonna find her family's fb, which woulda resulted in her getting kicked out since she talked to me (allegedly), but like, how does she expect to... y'know, live her life if they control her like that, and what, we just wait till her parents find out and cut me off anyway. How does she expect to get a job and get her own place, then we'd have to worry about plane rides and if we ever planned to move in together, was her family just gonna cut her off? In the end it was more trouble then it was worth, shes a great person herself but its just her family thats the biggest problem.
Not that I was gonna say anything bad, just that I was dating their daughter, since she was too scared to say anything out of fear of getting kicked out.
Hell her step-dad got utterly pissed if she came downstairs to get anything to eat when he had friends over.
TL;DR: Said some stalkerish shit cause of her strict parents.
Wait explain the "no coming downstairs".
Originally posted by SurturHer step-dad is a borderline-abusive prick who is one of the incredibly super shallow muslims who believes women's place is in the kitchen or cleaning, straight up. He was embarrassed if his friends saw his step-daughter (ex gf) coming downstairs to get anything to eat because it showed she wasn't cleaning and "made him look bad".
Wait explain the "no coming downstairs".
Mom is too desperate to get rid of him.
Reason I sympathized is cause I was going through the same thing except mom's bf on my side is ten times worse.
Originally posted by Nuke NixonI mean he doesn't get physically abusive, but he is a douche to pretty much all women from what I've seen.
They figure women belong either in the kitchen or bedroom, and they best shut the hell up and do what theyre told or thats a beatdown. Its an interesting culture.
I think on my end was a bad choice cause gf's older sister had already gotten kicked out for disobeying her mom (forget what it was but it was something stupid).
@Surtur
My girlfriend was "Kawaiighostie".
Originally posted by Surtur
I've never seen "horrifying" spelt like you spelt it.
That's the thing about different cultures, if you're not raised up in it it seems really fvcking disturbing (and yeah Islamic culture is horrifying if youre a chick) but its a way of life for a lot of people, its their deal to fix.
Originally posted by Nuke Nixon
That's the thing about different cultures, if you're not raised up in it it seems really fvcking disturbing (and yeah Islamic culture is horrifying if youre a chick) but its a way of life for a lot of people, its their deal to fix.
The culture isn't just different, but outright inferior.
Re: Re: Re: Girlfriend isn't coming back to KMC.
Originally posted by Jmanghan
I said some borderline stalkerish shit cause her parents are hardcore muslims with rules that are too strict such as "no internet friends, no facebook, no getting any job unless we approve, no coming down downstairs."I was utterly pissed at the time and said I was gonna find her family's fb, which woulda resulted in her getting kicked out since she talked to me (allegedly), but like, how does she expect to... y'know, live her life if they control her like that, and what, we just wait till her parents find out and cut me off anyway. How does she expect to get a job and get her own place, then we'd have to worry about plane rides and if we ever planned to move in together, was her family just gonna cut her off? In the end it was more trouble then it was worth, shes a great person herself but its just her family thats the biggest problem.
Not that I was gonna say anything bad, just that I was dating their daughter, since she was too scared to say anything out of fear of getting kicked out.
Hell her step-dad got utterly pissed if she came downstairs to get anything to eat when he had friends over.
TL;DR: Said some stalkerish shit cause of her strict parents.
1) You just made a bunch of the KMC Islamophobes jizz their underoos with the not-flattering to Muslims comments
2) Play her this, it works every time, 60% of the time: