Originally posted by BackFire
No, but I think it will kind of happen naturally. As the polarization continues, and shows no signs of halting, blue states are becoming bluer, red states are becoming redder, and as the tides pull them each in opposite directions the population that does not match the controlling party will likely leave for a state that better matches their own politics.
I find that my conservative pals are very agreeable when we discuss politics. I also feel that conservatives around me are much more reasonable and care about the facts. These are God-loving, Church-Goers who think abortion is murder. People who voted for Trump or Johnson in 2016.
I have the exact opposite experience with my liberal pals here in Oklahoma. They are unreasonable, do not want to discuss facts, and are unwilling to change their minds. Almost 100% of them.
And I don't feel like it used to be this way. I think it has only happened in the last 2-ish years due to Trump.
After a was part of a conversation with some conservatives and a liberal, and I saw the belligerence of my liberal pal, I interjected. Usually, I let things go because adults are adults and talk things through. But my liberal pal was so angry and obstinate that I stepped. Typical dadudemon fashion, I gave the "hey, we're all good friends, here. No need to get heated. What's wrong? Why did it end up at this point?" She said that living in the most conservative state in the US as a liberal the last 2 years has been pretty bad. Feels so antagonistic and intimidating. And she also feels that there's no hope of dialogue anymore.
Unlike internet debates, these are real life friends. People I care about. People, who if they asked me to to say a certain word because it is offensive, I would not say simply out of love and respect for my friend (something I refuse to do for strangers and most people because I care very little about them and their feelings). Obviously, her feelings are at the minimum, slightly valid. She's not wrong. Seems like we are becoming more and more polarized.
Do you know what topic they were arguing about? Immigration. 😐
Anyway, my point is, I can sit down with any of my conservative pals, make fact-based arguments about things such as Universal Healthcare, free contraceptives, drug legalization, and it works. They listen. I may even change their mind or at least move them closer to center from the right. I cannot do this with my liberal pals. 🙁