"Men's Issues"

Started by Flyattractor8 pages
Originally posted by Putinbot1
And therein lies the problem, people can only be rejected when they try and to be honest rejection isn't the end of the world, it's just a part of the world.

Honesty in a "relationship" SHeesh No wonder you got issues..
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Originally posted by darthgoober
I 100% agree on that one.
👆 seriously in a normal day off the web how often does the wordS SJW OR Patriachy come up Goobs, In my life.

Originally posted by Flyattractor
[b]Honesty in a "relationship" SHeesh No wonder you got issues..
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Everyone has issues Fly, our success is based on how well we control, come to terms with or hide them. Also, the scale of those issues. People today let these issues control them because they are too self centred tbh.

Originally posted by Putinbot1
👆 seriously in a normal day off the web how often does the wordS SJW OR Patriachy come up Goons, In my life 0.

Oh I just recently did a stint at a vocational school, it comes up plenty day to day. So much so that I did a big oral presentation debunking the whole "gender wage gap" thing. Strait up blew my teacher's and classmate's minds when I laid everything out.

Originally posted by darthgoober
Oh I just recently did a stint at a vocational school, it comes up plenty day to day. So much so that I did a big oral presentation debunking the whole "gender wage gap" thing. Strait up blew my teachers and classmates minds when I laid everything out.
What were you studying? Hope it went well.

Originally posted by Putinbot1
Haha, I do think men stopped wanting to be men and let the women be their men instead. I have a 25 year age gap with my present partner. She being 25 years younger than me, also having two degrees herself, I may decide to have a third family soon. Haha.

Awesome that you found such a great woman (2 degrees). Also, she must be incredible to still love you despite your terrible personality quirks. 😍

Originally posted by Putinbot1
What were you studying? Hope it went well.

Well I was studying medical insurance coding, but then they told me that the teacher would be retiring next year so I dropped the class because there's no way I could finish it all since I was only a half day student. Still, it wasn't a total waste. I did end up with mastery level scores in computer fundamentals and Microsoft Word and certified in Microsoft Excel so I came away better off than I entered in.

Originally posted by darthgoober
Well I was studying medical insurance coding, but then they told me that the teacher would be retiring next year so I dropped the class because there's no way I could finish it all since I was only a half day student. Still, it wasn't a total waste. I did end up with mastery level scores in computer fundamentals and Microsoft Word and certified in Microsoft Excel so I came away better off than I entered in.

Go back to school. Don't listen to the haters. Work hard. Don't sleep if you have to get homework done.

I am betting you come from a family that mostly does not have a college degree and they talk down about the college institution, right? (I'm in Oklahoma...so you know I went through something similar growing up)

That's why I say don't listen to the haters. Be the first in your direct family to get a masters or even a Ph.D. You're smart enough. The only thing you need is just the motivation. Extreme amounts of it.

Whirly's next controversial post on this topic. The internet acts as a hive mind connecting men who are not over things and creating "Men's issues", these people instead of coming to terms with things like they would have done before the net find others to validate and wallow in depression with. The same happens with women leading to radical ideas. These ideas have never spread as much before because in the past you might only know one couple splitting up and one depressed guy and/or woman. Now people come across lots of these angry souls and they almost appear normal, making everybody think histrionics, depressed facebook rants etc are standard human behaviour and stopping people moving on.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Go back to school. Don't listen to the haters. Work hard. Don't sleep if you have to get homework done.

I am betting you come from a family that mostly does not have a college degree and they talk down about the college institution, right? (I'm in Oklahoma...so you know I went through something similar growing up)

That's why I say don't listen to the haters. Be the first in your direct family to get a masters or even a Ph.D. You're smart enough. The only thing you need is just the motivation. Extreme amounts of it.


Oh everyone was actually very supportive, I quit for practical reasons. I signed up for the medical insurance coding because it was pretty much the only course they had for a legitimate job that one could do from home. If that course isn't available to me, there's no sense in going because my kids mean that I HAVE to find a job that I can do from home. If I don' find a real job like that within a year I'll end up with a job that will end up costing me my equal custody of my kids so it makes more sense for me to focus on finding something I can do from home than studying for some other job that would guarantee I had to give them up.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Awesome that you found such a great woman (2 degrees). Also, she must be incredible to still love you despite your terrible personality quirks. 😍
I agree

Originally posted by darthgoober
Oh everyone was actually very supportive, I quit for practical reasons. I signed up for the medical insurance coding because it was pretty much the only course they had for a legitimate job that one could do from home. If that course isn't available to me, there's no sense in going because my kids mean that I HAVE to find a job that I can do from home. If I don' find a real job like that within a year I'll end up with a job that will end up costing me my equal custody of my kids so it makes more sense for me to focus on finding something I can do from home than studying for some other job that would guarantee I had to give them up.
like I said men do because they have to do, you're doing what you have to do. 👆

Originally posted by Putinbot1
like I said men do because they have to do, you're doing what you have to do. 👆

Yeah I'm kicking around the idea of getting into the whole blogging/Youtube channel kind of thing. I'm good at arguing and pissing people off so it seems like I might be someone who can get quite a few views lol. I'm not trying to be rich or anything after all, I'll be happy if I can just get by.

Originally posted by darthgoober
Yeah I'm kicking around the idea of getting into the whole blogging/Youtube channel kind of thing. I'm good at arguing and pissing people off so it seems like I might be someone who can get quite a few views lol
i wish you well, i think it's oversaturated to be honest, not that I watch YouTube apart from old boxing matches tbh.

The Youtube Algorithm Gremlins would eat you alive..

Originally posted by Putinbot1
i wish you well, i think it's oversaturated to be honest, not that I watch YouTube apart from old boxing matches tbh.

Oh it probably is, I doubt I'll be able to make much even if I'm successful. But I'm looking at it more as a supplementary thing for whatever other kind of low paying "at home" work I manage to find. Plus I'm prob going to become a substitute teacher because there's very little in the way of requirements for that in my state.

Originally posted by darthgoober
Oh it probably is, I doubt I'll be able to make much even if I'm successful. But I'm looking at it more as a supplementary thing for whatever other kind of low paying "at home" work I manage to find. Plus I'm prob going to become a substitute teacher because there's very little in the way of requirements for that in my state.
clean criminal record and literacy and numeracy exam?

Originally posted by Putinbot1
clean criminal record and literacy and numeracy exam?

No exams even, just a diploma and background check I believe lol. Oklahoma has LOW standards when it comes to education.

Originally posted by darthgoober
No exams even, just a diploma and background check I believe lol. Oklahoma has LOW standards when it comes to education.
hahaha, that's amusing. No common core or NGSS in Okie schools?

Originally posted by Putinbot1
hahaha, that's amusing. No common core or NGSS in Okie schools?

Not sure, it's been been quite a while since I was actually in school myself apart from V-Tech, but honestly I can't really see the people around here getting behind the idea of something like common core. I always learned a lot more on my own time at the library and from the set of encyclopedias we had at my house than I did in class.