Originally posted by BrolyBlackNot at all, I wish you luck, i've dated people with kids. It's hard work, you will always be second to the kid, never know them when you are first before the kid is born. Good for you taking it all on.
Baggage? Thats essecially you, you are the one with the baggage and now your being sexist because someoen else has a kid besdies yourself?
Originally posted by BrolyBlackMy kids are all adults but one and that one will be soon. So, it's different the one we have coming is something we both wanted. Baggage is in the eye of the one carrying it. Sometimes bags get heavier as you climb.
I never said my girlfriend was previously married, so I dont know why you just made that up. I dont consider a child baggage, much like I assume your current wife doesnt consider you baggage?