Originally posted by BackFireThanks for the clarification.
To be honest she didn’t even mention bullying or harassment or anything like that when she requested the ban. She just said she thought this website wasn’t good for her right now and if I could ban her for a couple of months and I did. It wasn’t until a few hours later people started telling me about possible harassment and stuff like that.It’s actually not uncommon for people to request a temporary ban for reasons other than harassment and bullying. Some people start to feel addicted to this site and feel like a ban is the only way they can do other things. Other people don’t like the oftentimes negative interactions they have when arguing and debating but keep getting roped back into it and feel a ban is the only way they can break that cycle. Some people just think this website brings out the worst in them. Which is what scribble said to me when she requested the ban.
Originally posted by Surtur
So it's already pretty clear Lestov is gonna side with the narrative the bootlicking boys have put forth here.Disappointing, but expected.
While you're busying trying to poison the well, I went ahead and told Lestov where he could go read for himself, while you dodged the request. I wonder why.
I also didn’t see much of anything that I would consider harassment or against the rules. There was bickering between her and Adam and rob and some others but nothing that came across like she couldn’t handle. If there are any particular posts that are egregious I’ve not seen them and would like to.
I don’t think it’s mysterious reasons. Her mental health was not In a good spot and she was letting the arguments and trolling get to her more than she should have.
The way they were acting towards her was no different than how the various cliques act towards the opposing cliques, yourself included. The difference is that this behavior was starting to upset her where as people like you broly rob and Adam are not particularly bothered by it.
Originally posted by BackFire
I don’t think it’s mysterious reasons. Her mental health was not In a good spot and she was letting the arguments and trolling get to her more than she should have.The way they were acting towards her was no different than how the various cliques act towards the opposing cliques, yourself included. The difference is that this behavior was starting to upset her where as people like you broly rob and Adam are not particularly bothered by it.
Nice "both sides" there bro.
Originally posted by BackFirei would like to see them too.
I also didn’t see much of anything that I would consider harassment or against the rules. There was bickering between her and Adam and rob and some others but nothing that came across like she couldn’t handle. If there are any particular posts that are egregious I’ve not seen them and would like to.
Originally posted by Surtur
Okay, at this point Lestov has his marching orders.I bet he'll follow them, but I hope I'm wrong 🙂
No offense, but what would your marching orders be? Before anything, let me hear your full side of this, because from what I can tell, while Backfire, being a KMC Mod God, is trying to be neutral and say that Scrib requested her own ban for personal reasons, Adam and Rob are saying she left because you, Eon, and Broly transphobically catfished her, and you are saying that Adam is lying to cover up for the fact that she REALLY left because Adam was the one who was really bullying her.
Please note that my ultimate view is that people shouldn't get hurt feelings on the internet, considering the ease at which one can exit a conversation, and that internet dating is cool, but if anyone tried hooking up on an movie forum that hasn't been updated since 2012...they better know the risks. So quite simply, I'm neutral in viewing this story, in that I'm not sympathetic to emotional trans people OR the intolerant transphobic people who bully them.
So with all that out the way, before I go digging, what is your view on what happened?
Originally posted by Surtur
Nice "both sides" there bro.
It’s true though. Is it not? Your clique attacks Adam and rob and Whirley whenever one of them says something you feel is wrong or dumb. And they do the same to you. When I looked at the interaction with scribble the day prior to the ban I just saw that same behavior.
I have to try to apply rules, or lack of rules in this case, fairly. If I banned or warned rob and Adam for acting the same way they do towards you or you do towards them without any issue because someone didn’t have the thick skin necessary to handle said behavior then that wouldn’t be very fair. You can’t apply rules for some people and not others simply based on the way they respond.
Originally posted by Lestov16
No offense, but what would your marching orders be? Before anything, let me hear your full side of this, because from what I can tell, while Backfire, being a KMC Mod God, is trying to be neutral and say that Scrib requested her own ban for personal reasons, Adam and Rob are saying she left because you, Eon, and Broly transphobically catfished her, and you are saying that Adam is lying to cover up for the fact that she REALLY left because Adam was the one who was really bullying her.Please note that my ultimate view is that people shouldn't get hurt feelings on the internet, considering the ease at which one can exit a conversation, and that internet dating is cool, but if anyone tried hooking up on an movie forum that hasn't been updated since 2012...they better know the risks. So quite simply, I'm neutral in viewing this story, in that I'm not sympathetic to emotional trans people OR the intolerant transphobic people who bully them.
So with all that out the way, before I go digging, what is your view on what happened?
The only one who catfished Scribs was Eon.
But go read the chat for yourself.