Well you said he attracts ladies. In the context of this thread, success being defined by sexual performance (read OP).
And you just, without anyone else mentioning it, mentioned your own son, who's a little boy.
I mean, it's the holidays and all, so goodwill to all and all that, but that's a bit weird for me, to mention your son in a thread like this. That's just me, though. You do you. God bless.