The First Kiss

Maybe he's talking about the group...

I don't like a lot of heavy romance, just a pleasant surprise from time to time is a-ok. When Tommy gets me flowers or something, its almost always NOT on a special occasion. It works for us. Its the real world, not a book.

Yeah, Gundy same her. Except for the anniversary which is a good reason to do something special, IMHO OC.

Yes, I agree. Tommy's birthday is 3 days after our "anniversary", but we make an effort to keep them separate.

Awww, that's nice. I agree though, something unexpected is always much nicer than something that you execpt to arrive.

I expect nothing from Tommy except:

1. TRUST
2. HONESTY
3. HUMILITY (when applicable)
4. LOVE & AFFECTION

In that order. I would love some opinions on this. 🙂

Hmmm, tough one. No entry for Hot Fudge Sundaes in there...😂

6. "pub break" allowed to go to the pub with my friends.
A very important issue. 🙂

Well, I'd always want at least one "Disney Break" a year. Two on a good year.

The "humility" thing has me worried.

Well, I consider that to be something along the lines of, when you're definitley in the wrong about something, either with your other half or with a friend or relative, you admit it with humility, not rancor. As far as the pub goes, finti, we have a tap system at home, so Tommy does 98% of his drinking at home. Its cheaper, and he doesn't have to worry about driving with alcohol on his breath. When we go out together, I usually have one drink and then have soda the rest of the night and I always drive home. I'm the chauffeur 🙂 But he does what he wants when he wants and so do I. It works well, cause when we're off in separate directions all day on say, a Saturday, when we catch up to each other later on, he had a good time, I had a good time and we're glad to see each other and then spend time together. Its all very simple really.

Well if you have one sip of beer in Norway and drive you are breaking the law. It is a 0.2 limit in Norway which means if you eat a choclate with cocgnac fill it is enough to blow a red light. And if you get caught DWI you lose your drivers license for two years, one month salary in fine (before taxes) and 3 weeks in jail. So we just take a cab when we go out.

Yeah, I'm a big fan of the nominated drver idea. And being a very rare drinker that suit me cos I like to driver.

BTW, RC, sorry to disappoint you earlier in this topic with my inferior confession. If you want the hard core gritty stuff, you'll have to talk to Father Daya at St. Josephs. He's got the key to MY skeleton closet. Hehehe. 😈

Actually, I think it may be even better if we just leave THAT to the imagination.

DRAGGING BACK ON TO TOPIC: I think the first kiss in any relationship is special. There's the thrill of something new, the excitement of what is normally the first intimate brush of lips, it's just amazing.

Now two people really kiss the same way so there is also an element of discovery as you explore what suits you both best. Doesn't that sound like something to look forward to?

I guess, as you get older, First Kisses become rarer so I suggest you savor them while you're young cos once those days are gone, they're very hard to bring back.

Yes, there are only so many first kisses.

Both knowing you are about to kiss, the desire in the other person's eyes as you get closer....closer, perhaps hesitantly at first, the quick breath you take in just before your lips touch. The warmth that spreads through your body......that what you mean, RC ? 😉

(Gundark hands queeq a barf bag) 😂

Or it just happen by mistakes😂

*gives Gundy a full barf bag back*

Thanks, dear.

Well thanks Gundy, nice to know there at least one person around here who understands what I'm saying.

Yes, there are only so many first kisses, but sometimes, when you think your time for first kisses is over, something surprising happens and you pleasantly pleased.

Or you going for a barf bag, which is filled with queeq`s vomit at the moment🙂