Ahem, pardon me for stumbling onto this topic for the first time, I was busy posting off topic other places. 😛
First of all, Merc, I hope the mistake your doc made was to your advantage and you are all a-okay now. 🙂
RC, my sincerest regrets and hope you both find happiness apart and in continued friendship. I would never judge you nor your wife as I would never judge anyone's relationship. Its your business and no one else's, but you always know you can come here for a smile and a good laugh (usually at queeq's expense)🙂