Ikobe
The Swan's Princess
Hang on a second people.
The Oracle:
Being the One is like being in love... nobody can tell you you're in love, you just know.
Which is then followed by...
The Oracle:
You're not the One.
Contradictory speech there. It's a test, I think. Neo is the One and eventually he comes to terms with it and knows he is the One. It's like Morpheus says in the sparring program near the start...
Morpheus:
Don't think you are. Know you are.
And of course remember, there's a difference between a test and a choice - after being tested by the Oracle he makes a choice to believe he is the One. So there.
~AI (who is determined to be the youngest proper Matrix philosopher thingy *grin*)