j to the p... man up or be lonely. you don't need to be an ass... just confident. its an animal thing. its not survival of the fittest (ie. strongest) its the one who combines quick wit with self confidence (not arrogence... its a fine line) and knows he can get what he wants. i'm no don juan, but i do fairly well... at times... i was a shy and awkward kid when i was in high school... you need to break that. make yourself talk to girls, you'll go down in flames for a while but keep practicing... like anyhting in life you do the more you do it the better you get.
Originally posted by happy kine
j to the p... man up or be lonely. you don't need to be an ass... just confident. its an animal thing. its not survival of the fittest (ie. strongest) its the one who combines quick wit with self confidence (not arrogence... its a fine line) and knows he can get what he wants. i'm no don juan, but i do fairly well... at times... i was a shy and awkward kid when i was in high school... you need to break that. make yourself talk to girls, you'll go down in flames for a while but keep practicing... like anyhting in life you do the more you do it the better you get.
First off, how the HELL did we go from boob size talk, to MY girlfriend problems!? 😂 And 2nd off Kine, it's not the easiest thing in the world to get over the shy thing, especially with so many god damn competition guys out there to worry about! 😠 🙁
it's not the easiest thing in the world to get over the shy thing, especially with so many god damn competition guys out there to worry about!
no its not... but i feel your pain. i've been there. trust me... there is only you as the competition. and its not easy to get over shyness... but its so rewarding. i was just trying to help... i really have been there and it sucks. its a long slow process...