Society has led many people to “falsely” believe or think that sex inside of a “boyfriend/girlfriend” relationship is morally approved. But that’s “not” what the Bible teaches. Many people are even raised by their parents, siblings, relatives, neighbors, friends, and even the TV shows and movies that they watch to get the impression that sex inside of a loving boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is morally acceptable.
The Bible teaches that “all” unmarried sex (or “all” sex outside of the marriage covenant/bond) is “fornication,” which is a sin. A number of girls and women mistakenly pride themselves on “only” having sex inside of a loving boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, “erroneously” believing that the “love” or the “relationship” situation (status) somehow justifies their fornication.
But the truth is it’s “still” fornication—which is a “sin.” If your “relationship status” is anything less than “marriage,” then the sex is “not” Scripturally or Biblically sanctioned and thus “not” moral. It’s a shame that many girls and women “confuse” or “mistake” sex with love (or attempt to use sex to “get” love).
But sex is “not” love—it’s just “sex.” Now, sexual intercourse between a “married” man and woman in love “is” sex (or making “love”). In fact, sexual intercourse between a married “male” and “female” is a “byproduct” or “expression” of their love.
However, movies like “Fifty Shades of Grey,” soap operas, telenovelas, romance novels, erotica, porn and other Hollywood movies glorify sex between “unmarried” people in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, hook ups, one-night stands, etc. and call it making love.
But it’s “not” making love—it’s “just” fornication. There’s no lifetime commitment involved, no ring, and no approval from God. All sex without marriage is “defiled” (or “filthy,” “dirty,” and “polluted”). Many girls and women “desperate” for affection and attention have had their hearts broken because they keep equating sex with love—when they are “not” the same.
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There are four words used to denote those who have sex without marriage in the New Testament of the Bible. These words are “fornicator” and “whoremonger” (for men),” and “harlot” and “whore” (for women). No doubt the word “whore” is where the diminutive (or shortened form) “ho” or “hoe” is derived from.
Vine's Expository Dictionary’s definition of the word “fornicator” in the original Biblical Greek language (of the New Testament) is the word “pornos” (po'r-nos),” which means a MAN who prostitutes his body to another's lust for hire, a MALE PROSTITUTE, a man who indulges in UNLAWFUL SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.
The other word that describes a “man” having sex without marriage is the word “whoremonger,” which is translated from the same Greek word “pornos” in the original Biblical Greek language (of the New Testament). So both the word “fornicator” and “whoremonger” describe a man who has sex without marriage.
So fellas, you are “not” a “player” or a “mack’ if you’re out smashing girls/women “outside” of marriage—you are a “fornicator” and “whoremonger.” You might even be in a “monogamous” relationship with a girl or woman with whom you are shacking up with (or “living” with), and even perhaps “committed,” “faithful,” and “loyal” to—but you are “still” in sin because you’re “not” married.
Perhaps from ungodly society’s standpoint, or your “homies,” and “boys” you might be considered “the man,” or someone to be “admired” if you pull (and smash) a lot of “badd” chicks. But from Heaven (which is God’s perspective) you are a “fornicator” and “whoremonger.”
This is how “God” sees you.
The Bible states,
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
For you girls/women Vine's Expository Dictionary’s definition of the word “harlot” in the original Biblical Greek language (of the New Testament) is the word “pornç” (po'r-nâ), which means a WOMAN who sells her body for sexual uses, a PROSTITUTE, a harlot, one who yields herself to defilement for the sake of gain, any woman indulging in UNLAWFUL SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, WHETHER FOR GAIN OR FOR LUST.
‘Fornicator, Whoremonger, Harlot, and Whore?’” ... The other word that describes a “woman” having sex without marriage is the word “whore,” which is translated from the same Greek word “pornç” in the original Biblical Greek language (of the New Testament).
So both the word “harlot” and “whore” describe a woman who has sex without marriage. So ladies, you are “not” a “player” or a “hottie” if you’re out smashing guys/men “outside” of marriage—you are a “harlot” and “whore.”
You might even be in a “monogamous” relationship with a guy or man with whom you are shacking up with (or “living” with), and even perhaps “committed,” “faithful,” and “loyal” to—but you are “still” in sin because you’re “not” married. Perhaps from ungodly society’s standpoint, or your “homies,” and “girls” you might be considered “the woman,” or someone to be “admired” if you attract (and smash) a lot of what “you” call “hot” guys.
But from Heaven (which is God’s perspective) you are a “harlot” and “whore.”
This is how “God” sees you.
The Bible states,
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
All unmarried sex is “fornication,” so you are classified as “fornicators” just as guys are ladies. This is what the “Bible” states about you. God desires for you to “abstain” from “all” sex until marriage.
The Bible states,
1 Thessalonians 4:3
For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you should abstain from fornication;
I know your parents never told you this, you don’t go to church so your pastor wasn’t able to tell you, you don’t read the Bible so you weren’t able to read it for yourself, your friends and peers are doing the same thing that you’re doing so “they” haven’t told you, and society through erotic romance novels, books, magazines and other literature, movies like “Fifty Shades of Grey,” and other movies, and television shows that “promote sex without marriage” like it’s normal didn’t tell you—so the responsibility has fallen on me by default.
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Believe it or not I actually “care” about you or I “wouldn’t” be telling you anything. I’d just let you go to Hell “without” warning you that you are headed through that wide gate that leads to destruction where many of your friends, peers, and family members are headed.
God through His Word (the Bible) has instructed us to get “married” to avoid “fornication,” which is “all” illicit or immoral sexual intercourse.
The Bible states,
1 Corinthians 7:2
Nevertheless, because of fornication, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.
Sex was never meant to occur outside of or without a lifetime marriage/covenant bond. Many problems that are prevalent in society such as unplanned/unwanted pregnancies (which have led to wide scale abortions which is “murder”), the curse of sexually transmitted (or venereal) diseases, underage mothers, the need for welfare, many single parent homes/families, young men and women growing up without fathers, girls/women afflicted with low self-esteem and feelings of unworthiness from being “used” for sex, sexual assault/rape/pedophilia/and child molestation, and many other issues “stem” from fornication (all sex without marriage).
It is clear what the adverse ramifications of fornication are—and a “no brainer.” All sex without marriage should be “avoided” just like God (by His Word) commands. Nothing good has ever come from fornication.
Now, God can cause “good” to come out of “any” situation, so if a person commits fornication and regrets it, or has an abortion, or is raped and has a child, or becomes pregnant, or has a child out of wedlock, or gets a STD (sexually transmitted disease), or is sexually assaulted/raped/or molested, or whatever the case may be—God can still “redeem” that person (or persons) and the situation.
Why, because you've been brainwashed by ungodly society (perhaps parents, siblings, relatives, neighbors, friends, and even the TV shows and movies that you watch) to believe that sex without marriage is normal?
First of all: respond to my post in the homophobia thread; I've yet to be convinced mine being bisexual is the work of the Devil.
Second of all: no, I for one enjoy if someone treats their virginity and virtue sacred, but it's none of my business if someone wants to have sex. My eyes are bleeding actually because of how stupid you sound when you write this stuff; a girl had sex once pre-marriage and now she's a whore? A guy had sex once pre-marriage and now he's a whoremonger?
This is the type of opression and close-minded idiocy that gives Christianity a bad name; blood-sucking know-it-alls like you who think an outdated book written by old dudes jerking off in a cave and "hearing the word of God" is the universal law.
And the funny part is I'm a Christian, as is EmperorDMB, yet we both acknowledge that the Bible is obviously a human product and it's not God's true word.
I like how he makes marriage be the focal point of sex being right and wrong in god's eye, when a couple could have 50 different religious marriage ceremonies and they'd still not be married until they filed for it under the government. What a pleb, this guy. And yes, most definitely still a virgin.