i have tht problem now..i planned with someone to go to their party on the 14th n i arranged to go to a gig with someone on 15th..but then the party person changed the date to the 15th...n now the partyperson n her mate have decided that im ditching them because im still going to this gig...but what they dont realise is that im not actually ditching because i would still go to the party if it were on the 15th..n i would be ditching the gigperson if i decided to go to the party ARGGGHHHHHHH...did anyone understand that? 😠 😒 🙁