Originally posted by ShakyamunisonIt's faltering atm:
Yes, I have the same gene. 😉
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One of my neighbours in a 24 units block - I have spoken about 2 other next door neighbours, but, this guy is a bit far from my unit. His in the unit block, but, I just spoke to him.
His up himself!!! 😒
I can't speak at the best of times, though he just said "I was a bit concerned out your boxing equipment". I said "The body corporate had no problem with it".
Then I spoke to him about the setup (heavy bag, 2 end bad and speed ball) Your wife said "why so noisy?" I said "I have to drill into concrete, as it's 3 stories high building and it's 1 pm on a Tuesday".
No wonder the neighbour underneath me, she swore at him for about 5 minutes... 😆
He's a f***wit!
When one feels intimately towards another, you better bet that it's because they want something.
Now love is about settling. There's no settling in life.
It's always about more more more, it depends on what. Even pre-relationship, if you want to get someone to be hopelessly dependent on earning your affections, don't give them any affection.
Why does this work? Because it's about getting something from someone else. CUT them off, and see if the lack of interest remains.
It did for me, but she was a clever devil, she gave attention without my knowing it. And when I found out, she'd try and play with it, getting me to persist.
So, now the process will repeat, I'm not going to be happy until I've gotten more than anyone she's been with.
It was like this with my previous girlfriend, I let her previous boyfriends be the standard I had to surpass. This is an area in my life that is lacking most fulfillment, so of course it is the area I pay most attention to. If people want me to direct my attentions somewhere else, they should alleviate this issue in the only possible way, fulfilling my expectations.
So for now, she will not be able to get me to do anything. She will be cut off again, for as long as it takes. If she progressively came back in more and more sneakily ways, limited only by modern communication, than her next move could only be direct confrontation, which is what she used in the first place. Now I know what she's about. I'm making my plan known to her, at this very moment.