The sad truth is that women in this day and age search for men in a completely different way than they used to. What was considered by them a good catch years ago no longer is true, now they only want a man that can give them a comfortable life, a man with money/ambition/professionalism/college-education, etc.
That's why there are so many men single forever and bitterly miserable, they have fallen through the cracks of society and there's not much that can be done about it, until such a time there is another societal pivot and the average man become attractive again.