June Birthdays

I'm a snail? RC, I know I'm slow. At least I'm faster than a slug. 😕 😂 😮‍💨

On a side note..

snails are hermaphrodites.. 😛

Dimmy, don't confuse my gender, please. 😱 🙄

RC, are you saying I'm a snail? I know I'm slow.....

😛

Dimmy, snails don't snuggle???

😕 😕

[ June 10, 2001: Message edited by: keokiswahine ]

"evolving up from little snails, we lost or tails are we not men, we are Devo, D E V O"
Well snails like shrimps are both sexes then. 😛

A little late for mine, it was June 3rd 🙂

NO Keo, not "you are a snail"

What I meant was I guess you have to be a snail to understand.

And don't get me started on the whole gender identty issue, last time I had a discussin with someone on that it ended in a big arguement. 🙄

*jumps up and down*
Ooooh, let's do it again. Let's do it again.

lovely, just lovely. chaos is egging RC on. snails, this time. 😈 😱 🙄

Nah, not sure I even wanna get into this one.

Oh come on. You can do it. 😄

use your imagination, RC. 🙄 🙄 😈

I don't have to, I had first hand experience of "Gender Issues" within my own family thanks... 🙁

OH ??????? how do you mean??? 😕 😕

Well, part of the breakdown of my parents marraige was because my father was a transvestite. Us kids never knew until my mum told me on New Years Eve 1998 -> 99

RC, are you serious or joshing us? That can be very traumatic emotionally on all. 🙁

I swear, honest truth. As Dim, I told her about it ages ago.

I think if I'd known at the time it would have been a complete brain thrash, but I was thirty when I found out so I could see the funny side of it as my mom descibed how she found out.

She was actually rather drunk when she told me, but did confirm it all when a little more sober a few days later.

oh, my, RC, what did you think, after your mom confirmed it later? Did you think back on maybe some "interesting" events that occurred way back then, that you now understand better? maybe like your dad enjoyed shopping for your mom's clothes? little subtle stuff that really weren't any big deal back then, but now look different in light of everything?

Something like that. But if I tell you he was 6ft tall and nearly 300lbs then you might get the idea of why it was so funny. 😂

So you took it quite well when your mum told you? Geez! That takes guts! I would have been freaked even if I was thrity!

Well, he'd been dead for 2 years and there was also the fact that he was a complete Alan!