ummmmm, RC, I'm way over here in the Pacific. What do you mean by "Alan"?
and, yes, I can understand your smiling about it, a person that big dressed in the dainties would be funny.
QUE
queeqChaos
Well, my brother-in-law got his sex change operation two years ago. Interesting how I'm going to have to explain this to my kids.
RAT
ratcatSenior Member
Oh sorry, check out a show called the New Statesman. The lead character is called Alan B'Stard. (Say it fast and you get the idea)
QUE
queeqChaos
Ah yes, the illustrious Rick Mayall.
KEO
keokiswahineConfusion
heee heeee, RC, yes, it does sound, ahem, unique !! 😂
Queeqer, so your brother-in-law is not your sister-in-law?? 😕 How is your sister dealing with her hubby, er wubby, wibey?? 🙄
RAT
ratcatSenior Member
But is she a looker now? 😉
KEO
keokiswahineConfusion
yes, has the change improved everything? 😕
QUE
queeqChaos
Not really. He looks like a guy in a dress.
KEO
keokiswahineConfusion
*sigh* maybe in time.
QUE
queeqChaos
That'd be a miracle.
KEO
keokiswahineConfusion
miracles do happen. 😄
RAT
ratcatSenior Member
ACtually, there are a lot of Transexuals that you would never realsie used to be the opposite sex.
KEO
keokiswahineConfusion
agreed, but they look the role of the change. The ones who don't, really end up looking strange.
RAT
ratcatSenior Member
I guess if that's what you need to feel whole, then that's what you need.
KEO
keokiswahineConfusion
yup, RC, if they feel their spirit is in the wrong body, well, they're just trying to find their way to their own peace of mind. It's just such a traumatic decision to make.
RAT
ratcatSenior Member
Oh, for sure. I have a couple of friends who are transgendered. When I found out about my dad I did a lot of investigating on the net to understand what it was all about and in the process made some friends with in the TG community. They're some of the most honest and open people I know.
GUN
GundarkMayhem
Whatever floats your boat. Whatever people choose to be is their own business, doesn't bother me. If you're happy with yourself, thats what counts.
GUN
GundarkMayhem
And if you're not happy with yourself, you'll never make anybody else happy.
RAT
ratcatSenior Member
Ooooo, never thought of that one. 😄
GUN
GundarkMayhem
Its very true. A miserable person can't make someone else feel good. Unless they're an expert liar, but who wants to do that for the rest of their life ?