Is There A Difference Between Loving Someone And Being In Love Wit Someone?

Started by must_kill_Santa4 pages

yep i hear it everyday

ah, having ears is so fun 😉

i know im a bit late but there's totally a difference. I mean I love my friends but im not IN love with them. Being in love with someone is pretty darn amazing and u known when ur in love with someone

Of course there is, you could look at it like this.

I sure as hell hope you LOVE your mother but arent't INLOVE with her, or your father, or brother or sister, or animal, get me?

yes its pretty easy to get 😛

heres how i see it

Heres how i see it...you know...most people say i love you...but thats because people have become so accustomed to it being said around people you are very comfortable with. this is y i think about it dfifferently than everyone...it seems to be a concensus that you must love someone in order to be IN LOVE with someone because u can love anything. well the way i see it is the exact opposite. Think about it from this perspective...all of those things that u really say "i love you too" and not just the joking way because someone is funny u say o i love hm/her...really saying i love you...they are all people or things with which u have been closely connected for a period of time and built a real relationship...who do u say i love you to most in ur life...hopefully u answer with ur family...you live with them you whole growing experience therefore you build a lasting relationship...however when you meet a girl (or guy for that matter) you may end up in what people call puppy love...endless wants...thats what i think being in love with someone is...because when you decide u want to be with someone through THICK and THIN...thats when u LOVE someone...just like family. Maybe other people will agree with me...but majority of the people i talk to about this think the other way...lemme know what you think

i have a question.....Are we really in love or is it just an illusion?

Loving someone is one thing. That means you love the whole person, every flaw, every habit, every detail, even though they do have flaws, and sometimes irritate and piss you off, but you wouldn't have it any other way.

Being in love is temporary. People fall out of love, it is an infatuation, a want maybe. But falling in love is most likely the first step to loving someone for a long time, so you need one to have the other.

you know tht makes sense i love some1 but right now i hardly like them

EXACTLY!!!!

Silver Tears hit the nail on the head, so to speak.

You can love someone without being in love, but you can't be in love without loving that person. Love is tricky, it can sneak up on you from nowhere and hit you like a ton of bricks, or it can grow slowly.

Being in love takes a lot of work. It takes a ton of patience, respect, understanding, and most of all, communication. But, when you are in love with someone as opposed to loving someone, the work seems effortless.

"And that's all I have to say about that." -Forrest Gump

Originally posted by Samurai Girl
you know tht makes sense i love some1 but right now i hardly like them

Same cry

I love someone so much, but I hate him for it as well...😬

Originally posted by Phoenix Song
Same cry

I love someone so much, but I hate him for it as well...😬

you know phoenix my life yesterday was filled with so much hapiness. i was in love with this dead sexy guy but by him doing one tiny thing my whole life just changed.

How can you hate someone when all u feel is love....?

Originally posted by Samurai Girl
you know phoenix my life yesterday was filled with so much hapiness. i was in love with this dead sexy guy but by him doing one tiny thing my whole life just changed.

How can you hate someone when all u feel is love....?

I don't know...I just do 😬

That must be horrible...cry

btw, just realized that you're Turelie...😮

I dont think I've ever been in love 😖

yikes your nienna hey how u doing...just ignore me

Originally posted by Samurai Girl
yikes your nienna hey how u doing...just ignore me

Yeah, I just changed my name 😛 I won't ignore you ❌ You're cool ✅ ✅

I'm doing ok I guess 😬

Trying to get over my depression 😖

same here...I just like to know wat gives men the right to treat us the way we do

Well, sometimes women are no better then men. It is not as though we enjoy hurting women... but sometimes we have no choice

every1 has a choice.

Not always