Originally posted by pr1983
to be honest i've read all your posts, but let me tell u a story.i grew up not believing in love, connecting with someone, there being one person perfect for everyone, i honestly thought it was bullshit, until a few years ago.
i met someone who changed my perspective on everything, and im a stubborn mother****** who doesnt change for anyone, but she made me want to change. when we were together, when we touched it was electricity, like it all felt right, that it was perfect. its the most amazing feeling in the world, buts its so scary to need someone so much, its something i was never prepared for. its more than biochemistry, its almost.. spiritual.
Unfortunately due to circumstances beyond my control we are now in a long distance relationship, and weve been apart longer than we were together, and it is the worst feeling ive ever felt, and i have been through mountains of shit in my life, but i wouldnt trade it for anything. Me, im not a particularly emotional guy, im as masculine as the next guy, so this was a big shock to me.
Anyone who doesnt believe it should live in my shoes for a day and then see if they still believe in it.
I'm glad you found love at least once in your life. At least you can say you had love, some people never find love.
I also believe that same things you do, for the most part that is.
I hate this feeling. This...need to care. I loathe it with every fiber of my existence, and yet I am human, and still subject to it. This emotional dependence on another enfuriates me. When she is unhappy, I am unhappy. When she is away, I am unhappy. When she doesn't return my feeling for her, I am crushed. When she shows caring for another, I fall into a pit of dispair, and STILL, I will willingly go through all of this unhappiness just to be with her, and just being with her gives me the greatest happiness of all.
Love sucks ass.
Originally posted by Arachnoidfreak
I hate this feeling. This...need to care. I loathe it with every fiber of my existence, and yet I am human, and still subject to it. This emotional dependence on another enfuriates me. When she is unhappy, I am unhappy. When she is away, I am unhappy. When she doesn't return my feeling for her, I am crushed. When she shows caring for another, I fall into a pit of dispair, and STILL, I will willingly go through all of this unhappiness just to be with her, and just being with her gives me the greatest happiness of all.Love sucks ass.
Not if you meet the right love. Sure you will have bad moments, but when you meet the right person they should feel the same for you. So just think about it? Someone actually caring for you that much, and you to them. What more is there? The good should out weigh the bad though. 🙂
Originally posted by Arachnoidfreak
(Vaya: I don't think you caught my point...)My point was, love is inevitably laiden with immeasurable amounts of sorrow, yet a person who is in love will push through all of that, because the good that IS there, makes all the suffering A-OK.
Guess I did not get your point, but now I do 🙂. It's are very good point.
now I'm reading book about evolution and about Charles Darwin's theories. and according to Darwin love and sexuality are only ways how to make sure that people (and animals too) will always multiply themselves. there are many differnces between men's and women's love but the reason of it is same.
and I think Darwin is right. we're only toys in nature's hands...