Can You Answer This Question? What makes a person cheat on their partner?

Originally posted by total metalhead
i know this is gonna sound bad but, boredom is the usual cause of cheating.

but i can safely say ive never cheated on anyone, and im proud of that, cos i know how hard it can be to resist.

yea unfortunatly it was both boredom and drink that made me do it!

if i could change wat i did ten i would!

BUT NOW IM GONNA KEEP THIS GUY!!!

I never got why you would ever cheat someone you truely love 😖

thats the point if you dont love them enough to stay faithful then dont stay with them in the first place!

Humans will trade 10 minutes of pleasure for a lifetime of guilt! Go figure!

well, nobody is perfect and you shouldn't leave anyone just because things are not perfect

Cheating in my books is the worst....It breaks trust and not too mention if someone cheated on me I wouldnt stick around to find out if they would do it again!

If you believe in forgiveness would you forgive your partner for cheating on you? Is the key to a good relationship forgiveness?

these questions are too vague for one post to answer

the key to a good relationship is not cheating in the first place 😛

Originally posted by silver_tears
Cheating in my books is the worst....It breaks trust and not too mention if someone cheated on me I wouldnt stick around to find out if they would do it again!

though, I'm not sure about leaving immediatly, I would try and figure out why and such

That sounds like a good answer 🙂

Originally posted by silver_tears
Cheating in my books is the worst....It breaks trust and not too mention if someone cheated on me I wouldnt stick around to find out if they would do it again!

excactly. you go girlfriend!!!

Will do TM 😉

to where?

belgium 😱

No but I wanna keep this on topic becuz i feel strongly about this!!

and because you remembered I live there

awww thats why I chose it int he first place 😉

Originally posted by SilverFighter
If you believe in forgiveness would you forgive your partner for cheating on you? Is the key to a good relationship forgiveness?

i can understand forgiving one time, but, never anymore because then your the fool for letting them away with it!

i cant say im perfect, but, i could'nt cheat on a guy if i was truly in love because then i would be completely faithful!

Originally posted by dave123
urot, any reason why you're posting this?

Yes. I have had someone cheat on me twice in the past.

I know i'm not alone. So I wanted to get some other points of view about this hot topic.

I like what you guys have posted so far. Plz keep it up. 🙂