gothic=individuality
i know exactly what you mean, that were not different cos there are other goths around, so in a way were not. But we do show personality and courage to be different. And please dont insult by saying were just trying to be different. Were not. Were trying to be exactly who we are, and were succeeding.
what most people call a goth.
Dont get me wrong, ive no problem with anyone else noyt being. If there happy great. I just totally dont agree with people saying that we are basically efforts. We are just being totally ourselves. Please dnt be cross at me for expressing what i think. Just wanted to let you guys know my view on this. I dont call myself a goth cos thats just labelling.
no clavis im saying the people who choose to wear what they want have the right. Im not saying anyone has to do that, but if they decide that they want to, respect that. Being an individual isnt just dressing different! It doesnt have to even be called individual! All i said was sometimes people want to be individual so thats the way they choose to do it. Through clothes. Quit trying to change what i say k?!
..Also the music that I still listen at home and at some private parties.
We never used to wear special clothes or make up, but it was usual to wear grey and black clothes as I still use working or casual.
Meanwhile I grew and some actual Goths are to much strange for me coz their identity seem to be in their clothes and make up.
Last year I went to see a clasical goth band who ressurrected for a few live shows. Me and some friends of mine were normal people next to youngest fans who were wering the most fabulous clothes to impress.
And they were all happy with their unnecessary show off.
As you sy tree - Goth is a way of life but actually it seems to be more a circus.