Hmm...i used to be one! Or at least i used to be labeled as one...
Ok, being a goth is having an attitude, true. I cannot stand little 15 year olds dressing in black going out and sitting in a corner looking ''depressed'' because thats what goths do...pure and utter bullshit!
Clothes wise, having a goth life style is very expencive! Designers clothes like 'Dark Angel' and 'Omen' are really expencive...and i mean REALLY!
Being a goth does NOT consist of listening to Cradle of Filth and any other black or death metal...nor does it consist of loveing Marilyn Manson..these bands are fine, but they do not define a goth...period. Most older goths i knew listened a whole variety of music, but they were mostly alternative...
Goth is a lifestyle people choose....not to be cool, but because it helps them express themself in a way they may not be able to otherwise.