"your father wanted you to have this..."

The problem was that the whole Living/Unifying Force thing was something that was going around fan sites for a very long time. Then its sudden apperance on the website seemed suspicious, especially as that is the only reference to it anywhere. It really didn't scan.

so youre saying the terms "living force" and unifying force started out on fan websites?

Living Force was first mentioned in TPM, of course. But yes, the whole Living vs. Unifying Force thing was a fan thing before it turned up on the official site.