age diffrences?

I was jus wunderin what you guys think about age diffrences in realtionships ...
cause i'm in a problem and i dunno who to talk to bout this, cause i don't wanna tell my friends i kno in person, so i thot why not ask ur guys' advice/thots

here's the problem:
i sorta really like this guy, but our age diffrence is 20 years apart. i'm only 18 and he's 38 and i kno this is a big gap, especially since the age diffrence is 2 years older then i am! But i really really like him, and i dunno if he has any clue to it! The first moment i saw him, i knew i wanted to be with him, and now i got to kno him (nothing between us happened, just a friendly kiss on the cheek) and we have SO much in common! he's been on my mind alot, and i'm gonna see him for the first time in a month 1/2 later tonite, and i don't kno whether to express my feelings towards him yet (known him for 3 months) or give him a hug or what! being that it's valintines..
what u guys think? should i go for it dispite the age gap? he treats me so well everytime i see him..

well as you get older ages don't matter but i wouldn't come right out and say your feelings if i were you i would just play it cool and not do anything rash

i agree with J. you're only 18. there's bound to be others that's your age.

very well put

thx guys! ... but should i give him a hug?

I dont think age should matter in relationships. Im always attracted to older guys myself (not guys who are 20 years older than me but you know 😛 ) but you should do what feels right. What Jugs said, dont do anything rash

Originally posted by mouth
thx guys! ... but should i give him a hug?

✅ its just a hug, do it.

thx luv!!🙂!
i will.. if i'm brave nuff

Launa, hey girl!

I dont think there is anything wrong with the age differance HOWEVER, age differance may become a problem because of how you two look on life. What I mean is, a 38 year old will not have the same perspective on life as 18 year old.
However, if you two agree on stuff, i dont see problem with it wahtosever.

yea, some celebs are very odd couples (the particular age difference) and it doesn't affect their relationship. But, as lil bitchiness said, perspectives in life may be a bump in the road. Just know whats happening between you two, dont let him fall for another woman, and just keep it real. A hug? Sure! You gave him a kiss on the cheek right? A hug wouldn't hurt at all

age differences are sweet! 😱

Originally posted by Fallen Jedi
i agree with J. you're only 18. there's bound to be others that's your age.

Yea you would agree him wouldn't you fall jedi ??

lol

Originally posted by mouth
I was jus wunderin what you guys think about age diffrences in realtionships ...
cause i'm in a problem and i dunno who to talk to bout this, cause i don't wanna tell my friends i kno in person, so i thot why not ask ur guys' advice/thots

here's the problem:
i sorta really like this guy, but our age diffrence is 20 years apart. i'm only 18 and he's 38 and i kno this is a big gap, especially since the age diffrence is 2 years older then i am! But i really really like him, and i dunno if he has any clue to it! The first moment i saw him, i knew i wanted to be with him, and now i got to kno him (nothing between us happened, just a friendly kiss on the cheek) and we have SO much in common! he's been on my mind alot, and i'm gonna see him for the first time in a month 1/2 later tonite, and i don't kno whether to express my feelings towards him yet (known him for 3 months) or give him a hug or what! being that it's valintines..
what u guys think? should i go for it dispite the age gap? he treats me so well everytime i see him..

No... Big age gaps in relationships don't turn out well... Especially if you actually got married and had kids--my great-aunt married a guy who was 20 or 30 years older than her, they had kids, the guy was never around, he died a long time ago, and at least one of the kids (my uncles, I guess that's what you'd call em) ended up being really, really screwed up. They always had fistfights when they were kids--like serious ones, not just joking around. I'm not trying to sound mean or anything, but I know a lot of people who are married to people a lot older than them, and are really not very happy. Just an opinion.

i think its a good thing 😇

Well... Go ahead if you want, but age differences in relationships have always scared me because of the people I know in them who are unhappy 🙁

i think they're quite fine,if things cn work out...i mean,my mum's almost 10 yrs older than my dad and they;re doin well✅
then again...maybe the side effects of such a relationship is giving birth to unnatural children - that'd explain me!!😂

lol

Well 10 years isn't that big of a difference...

yup that's true✅
but maybe it's good enough to produce dysfunctional children like me😱😂