#16
BALLER STATUS IV LIFE
Originally posted by koolruningz
Point, this sounds like a b*tch of a prob bro. Family comes first man, company execs dont care about you they only care about what you can do for them. Family is always there and most of the time dont ask for nothing in return.
That being said id hate to give you advice that messes up your future or financial security, especially when you have a kid (nice to see another dad in the thread). So maybe talk it through with your Uncle and see what he thinks, hopefully he will appreciate you being honest and open with him and reciprocate. If he doesnt mind you staying then get what you can from the fat cats and drop them once you have your degree. They would be the first to tell you there are no friends in business. If he does want you to leave then i would respect his wishes, but make sure he understands what you will be giving up. Hey maybe he could pull some strings at his new job and hook you up there.
Hope that helps man, good luck.
i feel ya on that family comes first, that's how it's been all my life
well, i got to talk with my uncle earlier this evening... and he told me that he will take me with him on the new job. he also told me that the new job wouldnt pay as much, about 40% decrease, and there will be a lot more work than the previous one because this firm is a more "public" corporation. but the problem is my uncle seems to think that i really am behind him through all this shit, man, its like he's not even thinking that i might possibly be contemplating staying with the company. i know i shouldve talked to him already, but i just cant break that nigga's heart. after that he kept on talking bout how i should go to law school, he even offered financial help. 🙁
the thing is im thinking about asking the lawyer who talked to me about my future if i stay. you know, like will i still be paid the same amount and whose office will i be transferred and will i have a stable future with the company (opportunities for promotion and shit). but to me that seems like a snake move already, but if i dont do it i cant really weigh my options. you think i should ask those things?
i appreciate the help