"No offense, but..."

Originally posted by lil bitchiness
We sugarcoat things for people to save them embarrassment, just like we hate to be embarrassed ourself.

Do you like to tell someone how ugly or stupid they are? Its good to be honest, but you cannot always be brutal about it - you just cannot.

Lil, you're ugly and stupid and smell like cheese!

hmm....didn't feel too good....probably because none of it is true.

Originally posted by lil bitchiness
We sugarcoat things for people to save them embarrassment, just like we hate to be embarrassed ourself.

Do you like to tell someone how ugly or stupid they are? Its good to be honest, but you cannot always be brutal about it - you just cannot.

but you are what you are and i'm sure you know that you are. people saying that is like a second opinion. i know i'm sometimes an attetion whore, i know i'm annoying, i know i'm fat. if you come up to me saying that i'm fat trying to piss me off just won't work. if you wanna piss me off, tell me chinese food is getting banned.

the other thing also is that we are so insecure that what people thinks matter when they shouldn't. the fact is i'm living my life to the fullest and i can't be bothered to learn every other name we label each other so we don't offend. instead of getting offended, slap that motherf*cker upside the head and extend the birdie, buy him/her a drink then move on.

Can you become offended by an offense of an offense?

Originally posted by mc pee pants
but you are what you are and i'm sure you know that you are. people saying that is like a second opinion. i know i'm sometimes an attetion whore, i know i'm annoying, i know i'm fat. if you come up to me saying that i'm fat trying to piss me off just won't work. if you wanna piss me off, tell me chinese food is getting banned.

the other thing also is that we are so insecure that what people thinks matter when they shouldn't. the fat is i'm living my life to the fullest and i can't be bothered to learn every other name we label each other so we don't offend. instead of getting offended, slap that motherf*cker upside the head and extend the birdie, buy him/her a drink then move on.

No, if you are going to say to someone who is blond and dumb that they are dumb blond, and she doesnt necessarily see it as that.

Not all people that are fat see themselves as fat, and not all that are ignorant see themselves as ignorant.

Originally posted by lil bitchiness
No, if you are going to say to someone who is blond and dumb that they are dumb blond, and she doesnt necessarily see it as that.

Not all people that are fat see themselves as fat, and not all that are ignorant see themselves as ignorant.

true. just look at jessica simpson 😆

and those people are in great denial. ignorance is just different. ignorant f*ckers need to get slammed back to earth for a taste of reality. but then again, you can only do so much.

People are too easily offended nowadays, i hate having to watch every second word that i say, political correctness has gone too far imo. what ever happened to common sense?

I knew you will eventually agree with me swank its unavoidable.

it is inevitable. it is providence. it is the swank swank

Even a simple Pun is taken seriously !! If caused offence...then tough...we all are here to voice opinions and while i contribute i do not take it too seriously. some people on forums expect total veneration of some kind as if their life depends on it. If someone gets busted up on a couple of lines on a rectangular screen in front of them well stuff them.

Its not easy to speak your mind and i really appreciate the effort some people put in a thread extending themselves into lenghty posts sharing information and toughts BUT every now and then they should realize that we are all different, with different attitudes. thinking that life, everywhere, is black or white is just an illusion making distinctions on their personal morals of right and wrong.

There are only different shades of grey