Originally posted by silent_kisses
I like guys who take care of themselves ✅Like Milla mentioned, I think it's a big turn on if say I go out with a guy he should look as good as I look. I mean he should try to take care of himself.
👆 Totally.
I do hae to admit i go for the scratty type from time to time, but i generaly perfer guys who are taking care of themselfs. If we are expected to look and smell nice, so should they.
Too start off my reply, I will post a quote from www.maddox.xmission.com...
"When did it become acceptable in this country for a man to go from being a rugged, plaid-wearing, beef jerky eating badass to a well-groomed, "metrosexual" girly-boy like Ben Affleck? Affleck recently agreed to be a spokesman for L'Oreal, with L'Oreal quoted as saying "Ben embodies a new generation of men who show their strength in their personality but are not afraid to care for their appearance." Afraid of taking care of their appearances? It's not that we're afraid you assholes, it's that we don't menstruate. What next? Men getting hormone injections so they can breast feed?
"Ben embodies a new generation of men who show their strength in their personality but are not afraid to breast feed their children."
Is it okay that I don't have a sense of style? Is it okay for me to scratch myself? I'm hairy. I like wearing plaid and I don't want to be told how to dress by some dude with a "queer eye." Is that okay with you sissies, or would you like me to package my balls and neatly carry them in a purse? For crying out loud. You're turning us into a nation of pussies."
-Maddox.
Here's the link for the rest of this article "A Tribute to Real Men" - http://www.maddox.xmission.com/c.cgi?u=real_men
Anywho, I myself am seemingly one of the few guys left that doesn't spend hours in the bathroom like some chick. I take a shower every day, shave my face when necessary, put on deodarant every day, and get a hair cut every few months. That's where my sanitation ends. I'm very very hairy, all over, but I will not shave my body, despite it being a kind of lame trend, it would take too long, and I'd rather spend that time playing a video game or watching South Park. I'm simply one of the guys like Maddox. I have no sense of style, in fact, my mom buys my clothes for me because I have no interest shopping for clothes. If it were up to me I'd have a total of 4 shirts and 3 pairs of pants. That's all I need. I scratch myself in public when necessary, and fart as well.
I have no problem with guys who do spend extra time in the bathroom "grooming" themselves, I know most of them do it because chicks in this day and age like the more metrosexual looking guys then the burly masquline hairy guys. So it obviously makes it easier for them to pick up chicks if they look and smell pretty. However, it isn't necessary.
I know it isn't necessary because I , being a fat, hairy, stinky farting guy, has a beautiful, sexy little girlfriend who's nuts about me. She likes my smell (in fact, she's out of town right now, and she gave me one of her stuffed animals to sleep with, so when she comes back it will smell like me), she doesn't like my body hair, or my facial hair, but she deals with it. At least she never forgets that I'm straight.
Anyway, like I said, I have no problem with guys who want to be well groomed and well dressed. It just isn't for me.