as a 15 year old guy i can tell you you shuld pick your age for your kid to start dating for me it was 15. (though i already had a girl friend awhile back) just see how ready your kid is to date. and if you want to check out your son/daughters date make the first date at your house for dinner it was my first date. there parents wanted to make sur i wasnt some sex freek running off with there daughter and i respect that, and even after the date my family became friends with her family, and whenever i go on a date i say where i am going who is going with me(cant single date till 17) and what time ill be back.
the tips i would give parents is
make sure there not going out with a sexoholic
know were they are who there with
and relax has some faith in your kids belive it or not there growing up. let us figure some stuff out on our own and gosh darn it dont be such a peeping tom dont ask did u get your kiss or did you plan a second date not only is it embarassing it is a little freeky seeing your parents so into your small but noticable love life 🙂 💃
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at 16 all bets are off. at that age most girls are gonna skank out anyway! especially if they have overzealous parents. its the classic kid thing, the more ppl tell you not to do something the more you wanna and are gonna do it.
and for boys that age, only the really cool, popular ones can get girls anyway.(sheesh) i remember at that age i was so desperate i would have taken anything, and even the ugly girls with low self esteem would turn me down.
so parents need not worry, if your duaghter goes out on a date with a nerd or a geek or something, the most they'll do is hold hands and kiss a little, he'll be to happy he is on a date to be worrying about sex.
however, if its a jock or a "pretty boy roy" WATCH OUT!
Originally posted by Greek_girl
well in britain there isnt really all of this you cannot date nonsence!
i have been dating since i was around 10 yrs old but i never started to have sex until i was 15 1/2...
so i think if you push your kids to rebel then your more likely to hear the pitter patter of tiny feet!oh and we worry about dads too you know!
it hurts us just as much as it hurts you when we fall out!
15 1/2!!!!! you told us it happened when u wer 4!!!!!!!