Originally posted by Papaumau
What qualifications do you have Costa....That makes you think you can be of help to people who think they need it ?A willing ear is one thing but to set yourself up as an advisor is something else altogether.
I think that before you can offer advice you need to have had some successful experience of life under your belt and you need to have some official qualifications in the human condition too.
I have sixty years under my belt, I am fully qualified in two trades and one profession and have been all over the world and met many different kinds of people in my sojourns......BUT...even I would not dare to set myself up as an advisor here !
How can you ?
not the part about the sixty years or the profession though
ok guys...i read all of this, and i appologize for all of this...I never ment to start any of this...all i wanted to do is to help...but i guess it's not working well...Papaumau is right...all of you are...i cant help anyone without a degree in psychology...but what i can do is listen. Thanks for the ppl who defended my "help" thing...I needed that...All i wanted to do was help...
so i'll switch this around...i will listen...i will be a shoulder to cry on (electronically)...i will be there. Again I am sorry...
awh no 😛....it's rather simple, misha.
it's an universally valid fact. So me talking to you or not changes nothing 😛
i'm kidding ofcourse. everyone is compared to a standard of 'matureness' or 'imatureness' regardless of age, you see. It's also a matter of opinion. I don't know if you are mature or not. However, i will go with the age thing just for the sake of logic 🙂 ...and i WILL prove you wrong at the end, believe it 😛
bleh..so what you're doing is question the relativity of it all.
when in fact...you automatically assuming that acting like an adult is boring is a rather immature thing to say.
quite a lot of people wouldn't mind talking about periods, and frankly we freak out much less about lesser things than..let's say previous generations. but that's just a way we evolve and become more free-minded. NOT more mature.
btw, is's said some ppl you said are freaked to talk about their periods 😛
but hey..at least you know how to make them feel uncomfortable