Above the age of consent of course.....
How much does that age gap matter really ?
Is it better for older guys to go with younger women than vice versa and does it matter at all how many years there are between partners ?
Does it make that age gap much more easy to come to terms with if that bloke has plenty of money ?
i dont think age matters as long as both parties are of legal age of consent . i also think it doesnt matter who is the "older" one , the man woman .
my father -in -law is 18 years older then his wife . seems to work for them just fine .
and i do think wealth helps some to overlook the age difference .
prime example : Anna Nicole Smith
I think it depends on the ages myself. For instance, Lady Grim stated i know a 17yr ld girl going out wit a 28/9 yr old , me personally I think thats just nuts.....I mean really what does an almost 30 year old man see in a high school girl (beyond the physical aspects) that he can possibly relate to? And why does society look down on women who date much younger men when its ok for a man to date a much younger woman? There are alot of older celebrity men in their 50's 60's running around with 24-27 year old babes.......that has GOT to be money cause its rarely a case of a hot body! But the tongues started wagging when Demi Moore started dating Ashton Kutcher, go figure.
It's spelled "pedophile". Pedophilia isn't when a 16 year old dates a 50 year old, in most US states, that's statitory rape. Basically any adult sexually abusing a child under the age of 13 is a pedophile.
Age matters less ass people get older. A 20 year old really shouldn't be touching 10 year olds, but it's ok for a 40 year old to date a 30 year old. Same 10 year gap, double standard.
I DID qualify the question by stating that the relationship must be above the age of consent, ( whatever that might be in YOUR country ).
BTW...It is called Paedophilia in Britain and it is sex with anybody below the age of 16 years. We don't have "statutory rape" here !
Anyway... that aside... I see no reason why a young woman should not or could not fall in love with an older man , ( in fact I believe that it is really quite common ), and I feel that there is nothing wrong with an older woman falling in love with a toyboy as long as a total committment is made in both directions.
I do see the problems that may be created when there is children produced from such a partnership as if one of the partners is quite old - usually the man - the child that is produced might see the man more as a grandfather than a father and THAT gap might be too much for a good parent/child relationship. This could be even worse when the child grows up and the elder parent has little common-ground with the child.
Originally posted by Papaumau
I DID qualify the question by stating that the relationship must be above the age of consent, ( whatever that might be in YOUR country ).BTW...It is called Paedophilia in Britain and it is sex with anybody below the age of 16 years. We don't have "statutory rape" here !
Anyway... that aside... I see no reason why a young woman should not or could not fall in love with an older man , ( in fact I believe that it is really quite common ), and I feel that there is nothing wrong with an older woman falling in love with a toyboy as long as a total committment is made in both directions.
I do see the problems that may be created when there is children produced from such a partnership as if one of the partners is quite old - usually the man - the child that is produced might see the man more as a grandfather than a father and THAT gap might be too much for a good parent/child relationship. This could be even worse when the child grows up and the elder parent has little common-ground with the child.
so your wife is what 19?? 😱 j/k finally someone on these boards thats older than me! 😆