How important is surface beauty ?

there is a difference between people asking you out for a day (like they do with me) and people saying you have to stop going through their trash to get some food, girlfriend!

surface beauty is more important that anyway is willing to admit

it's important that you should be physically attracted to your partner, but they don't have to be necessarily "classic beauties" to be attractive ✅

I always look for beauty inside - in the heart, soul and mind. I usually find that, although a person may be visually pleasing, unless they have some sort of inner light to them, the outer beauty rapidly loses its attraction

and you're dropdead gorgeous on the inside phoe 🙂
... if only you would show your outside here 😉

The outside's pretty foul... but anyone who dislikes me because of that is not worthy of my astounding company! 😄

that's mean of you to say ...even of yourself 🙁

Originally posted by Phoenix
The outside's pretty foul... but anyone who dislikes me because of that is not worthy of my astounding company! 😄

Oh I love you phoe hysterical

Originally posted by Papaumau
Where do you guys find beauty in a person and do you need to see beauty in the face and form before you will look for it elsewhere ?

I'ts as important as you make it

😄

*hugs to silver and yerss*

hug *huggles*

Originally posted by Phoenix
😄

*hugs to silver and yerss*

*feels proud*

😄

it's noble to do so 😉

Looks are important. They are many times the first thing on which you base your opinion of an individual. I know many times, it's the only thing on which I have based an opinion. Sure, it's shallow to base your intrest in someone who is good looking, but it's also basic human nature. It's nature period. All animals do it. Be it feathers or horns or blue eyes. Sure, we have "evolved" to higher level and attraction should have more to do with personality, but it doesn't. It never will...at least not initially.

Now, that being said, I've met some guys I wouldn't normally find attractive, but after I got to know them I began to be attracted to them. Sometimes, you learn to put aside those needs for chisled features and blue eyes in favor of the way someone can make you smile or feel. That's where the "evolved" part come in. But I don't ever think it will be the initial quality that we seek as humans.

Originally posted by Phoenix
I always look for beauty inside - in the heart, soul and mind. I usually find that, although a person may be visually pleasing, unless they have some sort of inner light to them, the outer beauty rapidly loses its attraction

you dont expect me to believe that do you?....well i can beleive it to an extent...but i think everyone is all "oh its nice to have but not important" ...what a bunch of shit...if its not so important how come women drool over people like cruise, pitt, and kutcher without even knowin them...looked at all those gawd damn orlando bloom names...iluvorlando, orlandoluvsme....jeezus...how about being original for a change

Cruise Pitt and Orlando are just pretty faces, we'll never really meet them ((a bit like boys and Jordan, Pammy and all other busty models)). For an ACTUAL RELATIONSHIP, women are far more likely to look past the face. My last three crushes have not been gorgeous - some of my friends even ask what I see in them - and I say they've got a great sense of humor, a lovely smile, and they make me feel happy inside whenever I'm with them.

*disappointed*
after all the time I placed in getting Pitts hair from the Mexican 🙁 oh great 🙁

*starts practicing lovely smile* (hey, I already got the humor down 😉)

Originally posted by Phoenix
Cruise Pitt and Orlando are just pretty faces, we'll never really meet them ((a bit like boys and Jordan, Pammy and all other busty models)). For an ACTUAL RELATIONSHIP, women are far more likely to look past the face. My last three crushes have not been gorgeous - some of my friends even ask what I see in them - and I say they've got a great sense of humor, a lovely smile, and they make me feel happy inside whenever I'm with them.

so they may not have been GORGEOUS...but i bet they will still good lookin.....woman are for more likely to look past the face....c'mon....dont make me laugh.....its the face that gets the women interested in the 1st place

it's the style