what makes marriage so special that it is the deciding factor when it comes to losing your virginity?
Other states don't even recognize out of state marriages, so what is a little document telling you that your heart can't tell you?
Or are you money grabbers all about the ring? because if you think about it....that's like prostitution. 😉
Which would make you even cheaper...
Originally posted by Linkalicious
what makes marriage so special that it is the deciding factor when it comes to losing your virginity?
Beacause supposedly it is THE deciding factor that one's relationship with someone WILL last. It's like a guarantee...
OF COURSE things CAN go otherwise...but that's a whole diff story 😉
Do animals even know what marriage is? No they don't, get your head out of your ass.
You can still love someone and have all the same aspects of a relationship without paying thousands of dollars to get married and risking paying thousands more dollars if said marriage "doesn't work out".
And for the record, humans ARE animals. Quick biology lesson for you, since you obviously skipped some classes.
Originally posted by Linkalicious
Or are you money grabbers all about the ring? because if you think about it....that's like prostitution. 😉Which would make you even cheaper...
My sentiments exactly.
Why do most women define Love as a piece of jewelry. If you truly love the person, it doesn't matter what they have or what they can get you. It's about emotion.
Punkyhermy>” Sex AFTER marriage.DUH!!
pERSONALLY i am not comfortable with the idea of sleeping around. It's just like what animals do.Go **** the next person in the street. As human's sex should be more than just a physical activity. If u keep on sleeping around then what do u have to offer to that person who u'd want to spend the rest of your life with?!”
How about… skills? Being a good lover? And what about ALL the stuff you have to offer that does NOT deal with sex?
“Why do we always resort to thinking like animals when we don't have to.” Uhrm… because we ARE animals.
Animals know what… Oh, BF beat me to that! 😄
Stop thinking sex is OH, SO special it must only be conducted after marriage. We have hormones, NOT acting on them makes us sick.
The opposite of ”No sex before marriage”, Punkyhermy, is NOT sleep with as many people as you possibly can! But we grow up, we fall in love, MAKE love (or have sex), fall OUT of love and sometimes people find someone they want to spend the rest of their lives with – and get married.
But you know what? Marriage is NO guarantee that the relationship will last. It is NO guarantee you’ll love each other for ever. It is no guarantee for anything.
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
Beacause supposedly it is THE deciding factor that one's relationship with someone WILL last. It's like a guarantee...
OF COURSE things CAN go otherwise...but that's a whole diff story 😉
Your theory is a dying trend ...
I'm glad this turned out to be a successful thread, and not be filled with garbage answers like most of the people I know in real life I'd expect to hear such things from. Nowadays, some people have to question what "love" is because that one relationship you have with someone, could be the "it" relationship, or something nice, but won't lead to marriage, or something horrible. It is really up to each person themselves to decide this sort of thing, as all we know, and yes, I'm a guy, so don't pin me as a woman on this one. (Mainly all you people who dislike me for one reason or another)
Guys seem to take the word love and figure is all it takes to sleep with a woman, just saying, "I love you *name*". ( 🙄 ) The world has become a sick and twisted place with the birth of the new generations, since all of our parents in the 70's, and grandparents, and so forth back through time. Between all the rape stories, people exploiting others after something happens, date rape, you name it. (And no, I am not saying all of this didn't happen in the earlier years, but the world is even worse nowadays, I am not thick-headed, I know these things always happened.)
I just feel it is up to each person who/when/why we decide to have sex with another person of whatever gender, (to suit whatever each sexual preference) and whether it is something to be sickened by afterwards, feel good about ourselves afterwards, feel awkward, whatever we feel is how we should take it.
We can depend on our friends and family for tons of things, but sometimes it just takes our own mental maturity, and people such as the members on KMC to talk something our, we all don't know every single member here, but we should respect eachother's opinions/religions/whatever they say on this issue, as sex has been blown out of proportion nowadays.