Sex before or after marrage.

Originally posted by JToTheP
Uhhhhh..... 😕

I'm not voting, I have two opinions.

Before-If I find the right girl, not having a one night stand, I don't want an STD, I want kids eventually.

After Marriage/Honeymoon/whenever-If I keep getting nasty women while dating, I'll wait.

Your dating nasties now?

Originally posted by Turbo-Cajun
Your dating nasties now?

No, I'm dating no one, I mean for my 20's-30's.

I'd rather have a healthy relationship in my future, then some annoying, b!tch who makes me feel bad, and I hate her, and just to have sex with, hell no. 😘

Have sex when you're horny, whether you are married or not. Just wear a rubber.

Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.

I'm not having sex with some stupid annoying chick I don't even like.

I'd perfur a girl to love then to f*** anyway, and besides, I COULD get other stuff if I wanted it, other then sex, so ending it now.

No one is telling you to have sex with someone you don't like. I said do it when you're horny. How did you get "do it with a chick you don't like" from that??

Sex AFTER marriage.DUH!!
pERSONALLY i am not comfortable with the idea of sleeping around. It's just like what animals do.Go **** the next person in the street. As human's sex should be more than just a physical activity. If u keep on sleeping around then what do u have to offer to that person who u'd want to spend the rest of your life with?!

And quit bashing religions YOU ****ING DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT!!!!!!It's amazing how shallow some ppl can be....an embarrasment to human nature in fact...

organized religion= pretty name for a cult. hahahahaaa dont listen to the priest when he tells you to drink magic kool aid.

People need to stop forcing their religion on other people. Everyone just needs to lighten up and enjoy life. Learn to do things for yourself. Don't rely on God to make sure everything works out for you. God is not a babysitter.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
pERSONALLY i am not comfortable with the idea of sleeping around. It's just like what animals do.Go **** the next person in the street. As human's sex should be more than just a physical activity. If u keep on sleeping around then what do u have to offer to that person who u'd want to spend the rest of your life with?!

Well...Personally...I'd only want to have sex AFTER being married....But, if I were datting someone, and they really wanted it, and we loved each other...I'd do it then 😛 >.>; 😇 😊 😇

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
Sex AFTER marriage.DUH!!
pERSONALLY i am not comfortable with the idea of sleeping around. It's just like what animals do.Go **** the next person in the street. As human's sex should be more than just a physical activity.

What if you're going out with someone you're probably goin to spend the rest of your life with? would you have sex before marriage then.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
If u keep on sleeping around then what do u have to offer to that person who u'd want to spend the rest of your life with?!

hopefully your personality and characteristics and the joy of growing old together???

Personally I dont know if i really want to get married anyways... so I vote for sex before marriage.

Originally posted by yerssot
the talk is about if you are pro- sex before marriage or not,... it's not about how slutty you can be 😖
I doubt anyone here (ok,... some exceptions 😉) walks around, grabs a guy/girl, drags them to an alley, has sex with them, takes off and goes to the next person to have sex with.
And if you spend the rest of your life with someone you hopefully offer more than "just" sex of course

only when you're in thailand where you follow the lead of everyone else 😐 😛

After marriage. That way, the person you're marrying knows you love them primarily for their mind. Plus it teaches a lot of versatility when it comes to expressing love...

how do you know they aren't marrying you for something else...like your phenominal ass? or for your money?

Why does someone need to be married in order to express their love for someone physically? Does being married make you a different person? does it actually increase your love for that person?

Sex these days is almost reduced to just that, a mere physical activity!There used to be a time when it would be a BIG deal and it still is in some cultures.But really, sleeping around, giving your all to every next person...just isn't appealing to me.You can't LOVE everyone, therefore you can't reveal your most private stuff to everyone.Then it's value decreases.The more sex u have, the less of a big deal it is. The more it is degarded.
So when one finally does have sex and with that ONE SPECIALperson, than u BOTH know that this activity means deeper than just hormonal release. 😄

I agree with Punkyhermy. Save it for someone really, really special. Being married doesn't make you a different person, but it does let the person you love, and the rest of the world, know that you want to be with them forever.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
But really, sleeping around, giving your all to every next person...just isn't appealing to me.You can't LOVE everyone, therefore you can't reveal your most private stuff to everyone.Then it's value decreases.The more sex u have, the less of a big deal it is. The more it is degarded.
So when one finally does have sex and with that ONE SPECIALperson, than u BOTH know that this activity means deeper than just hormonal release. 😄

also, if you're having sex with that 1 special person its gonna be special anyways just because they are the one.

I voted b4, and im catholic..Hope God doesnt hate me 😖ad:

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
Sex these days is almost reduced to just that, a mere physical activity!There used to be a time when it would be a BIG deal and it still is in some cultures.But really, sleeping around, giving your all to every next person...just isn't appealing to me.You can't LOVE everyone, therefore you can't reveal your most private stuff to everyone.Then it's value decreases.The more sex u have, the less of a big deal it is. The more it is degarded.
So when one finally does have sex and with that ONE SPECIALperson, than u BOTH know that this activity means deeper than just hormonal release. 😄

Sex is a physical activity. Humans are the only beings on the planet that know what love is...or what "making" love is.

What happens if you get married, lose your virginity to that "special" someone...and then they end up cheating on you or you get divorced?
Does that make it less special? I would certainly hope so.....and then you've waited your whole life to experience sex with one special person....and that person has already shared themselves with more than just you...

This goes with that whole "soul mate" bullsh!t that MAINLY WOMEN believe in. There isn't ONE person on this earth that is "perfect" for you. Only in your deluded little minds does a concept like that exsist.

Originally posted by Linkalicious
Sex is a physical activity. Humans are the only beings on the planet that know what love is...or what "making" love is.

That's the definition of being human.We have the ability to look deeper.It's stupid when we fall from our superior status over animals by thinking like them.Why do we always resort to thinking like animals when we don't have to, when we have the ability to?We know sex is...important to us and we can make it special...unlike animals WHO DON'T HAVE THE CHOICE.