Sex before or after Marrage
I am 18 and I would like to give advice to those who ask them selfs Should I have sex before I am Married? well I am Married and I had sex before then , I started having sex at 14. Ive been with 3 other people before my husband and I didn't always use protection I know that you should but I was younge and in love and thought i would be with them forever. well now I worry every day and regret the dicision I made to have sex at such an early age. It has caused arguments between me and my husband Because just knowing that the love of your life has shared that gift with others and you will never forget those people you shared those moments with . Just the thought of knowing my husband has had sex with other woman drives me crazy , Also there are alot of sexualy transmitted diseases and I hate to see someone distroy there lives . So if you choose to have sex always use protection and birth control.
first of all if you are married you aint someones price nor are your spouse your price. Kind of selfish of the part being pissed casue his/her better half wasnt untouched. Usually it goes the way that the male part wishes for a virgin bride, but he can screw around a bit cause after all he is a guy.
The double moral stander her makes me wanna puke.
One have to accept that the usually your partner wife/(husband) had a life before you all met, so to all of you that are jealous of your spouse past, get over it . Now it whats count
Originally posted by finti
first of all if you are married you aint someones price nor are your spouse your price. Kind of selfish of the part being pissed casue his/her better half wasnt untouched. Usually it goes the way that the male part wishes for a virgin bride, but he can screw around a bit cause after all he is a guy.
The double moral stander her makes me wanna puke.
One have to accept that the usually your partner wife/(husband) had a life before you all met, so to all of you that are jealous of your spouse past, get over it . Now it whats count
When you buy a new car, you take the effort to take it out for a test drive. And if you marry somebody, you are going to be with them for a lot longer than you will have a car for. It is a much more important decision than buying a car, so it makes sense that you want to be sure about the commitment by taking it for a test drive
Well, i made my descision a few years ago. I opted to have sex before marriage. and all i have to say to someone who is contemplating doin that, make sure it's with someone you know u can trust, who u know will not take advantage of you or that won't become a complete butt monkey once everything is said and done.
Now, my current boyfriend went into out relationship with the moral idea of sex can wait. He has changed his mind recently, and honestly, I feel like crud for it. I don't want him to regret things like I do. Granted, my relationship w/ him is completely different from the one i had when i made the descision, but still..
Basicly, if ur gonna have sex before marriage, make sure it's a descision u will not regret.