Sex before or after marrage.

Originally posted by theReject
Well according to my religion: after
but I figure God will forgive me for having sex Before.
After all he'll always forgives our sins. 😛

Most people don't listen though, and don't care. Lack of caring in many areas of this world, and thats why this world is so messed up. Rather you believe in god, or not. There is a right, and wrong. Everyone knows deep down if they are doing good, or bad. It's not hard.

Well people make choices, some may be bad and some may be good. I have to say sex before marriage, but see i didnt do that. Now that i am married, our lives are change, so you know, all that fornication bs is the past and thats that.

Living a corrupt life, can lead to many troubles, so watch out.

I MEANT SEX AFTER MARRIGE.

And what the hell is wrong with this forum, its making my computer freeze up. 😠

Originally posted by vaya_the_elf
Does not mean we should not try to change our ways. Deep down I believe everyone knows whats really right. Just if we are willing to do whats right.

Most people don't listen though, and don't care. Lack of caring in many areas of this world, and thats why this world is so messed up. Rather you believe in god, or not. There is a right, and wrong. Everyone knows deep down if they are doing good, or bad. It's not hard.

Everyone has a different idea of what is right, and this is one of those cases. It's a personal choice.

I see no real reason to wait until you're married, I say simply wait until you feel the time is right.

Originally posted by Lana
Everyone has a different idea of what is right, and this is one of those cases. It's a personal choice.

I see no real reason to wait until you're married, I say simply wait until you feel the time is right.

When is the time right, when the lust comes in?

If that were true everyone would be having sex on first dates, and people would jump everyone they saw that they lusted after. But that's not the case, is it?

It's not something that can be described, it's just something you have to experience to know.

Someone who says they are going to wait untill marrage hasn't had the opportunity yet...

Well i had my share of fornication back in the day, now that i am married, i view sex outside the marriage wrong. People have to learn to control theirself, not only for sex, but for everything in this world. Staying focus and living right, is one of the roots to staying alive.

Now if someone makes a choice to have sex before marriage, so be it. But thats a sin, and even tho we all have fallen short of GOD, we all have to change. Now if you dont believe in GOD, well hey i still love you and so does GOD, but best believe, i will tell you, your lifestyle is wrong.

We all have to follow rules in this life, if not, be prepared for countless troubles.

People can have sex before getting married and still control themselves. It's not a case of either don't sleep with anyone until you're married or sleep with everyone you can get your hands on.

And you know what, that's what you think. Fine. But not everyone things the same way, everyone has their own beliefs and morals and what you think has nothing to do with other people's choices. My lifestyle is NOT wrong because I'm not married and I've had sex. I don't have to change anything I've done, because I've done nothing wrong. And neither has anyone else who's had sex before being married.

Have sex when it feels right to do so, when you're ready. **** the standards and what other people think. Before or after marriage, it doesn't make a logical difference.

Originally posted by BackFire
Have sex when it feels right to do so, when you're ready. **** the standards and what other people think. Before or after marriage, it doesn't make a logical difference.

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It does matter. Rather you believe in god, or not. It still matters.

Why is there no during option in the poll? Does god allow for during?

if it was me i'd screw her in the vigina first then shower together
more fun then go back into the bed room then do anal as long as she wants it.. or if she rather give head that's fine too

Originally posted by vaya_the_elf
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It does matter. Rather you believe in god, or not. It still matters.

Too you, it does.

And what the hell does God have to do with anything?

Have sex when you're ready, if that's after marriage, great, if it's before marriage, great. Why should you care when other people decide to have sex?

Spelljammer is very slow to even enter a relationship, so much so he's 20 and has never had a girlfriend.

Spelljammer fears rejection more then anything, to show someone his true feelings and soul only to be discarded a couple months down the line because some shallow hussy get's bored with his personality. Spelljammer is not some toy, he's a person with feelings, ambitions, and impact..

Much less could Spelljammer share his body with someone who would take his emotions for granteed. So he's going to wait till marriage. It's not a sure thing, but as Spelljammer likes to refer to it as.. It's "love insurance".

Originally posted by BackFire
Why should you care when other people decide to have sex?

Because instilling fear in the ignorant is the job of every up-standing christian citizen of this country. It's just like your parents telling you Santa won't bring you anything for xmas because you have behaved badly.

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
Because instilling fear in the ignorant is the job of every up-standing christian citizen of this country. It's just like your parents telling you Santa won't bring you anything for xmas because you have behaved badly.

That's what they told me....And I was good...All I wanted was a big sister...That wasn't too much to ask, I don't think.....I don't think so....not for Xmas

Sorry..I didn't read the rest of the thread.

Originally posted by Spelljammer
Spelljammer is very slow to even enter a relationship, so much so he's 20 and has never had a girlfriend.

Spelljammer fears rejection more then anything, to show someone his true feelings and soul only to be discarded a couple months down the line because some shallow hussy get's bored with his personality. Spelljammer is not some toy, he's a person with feelings, ambitions, and impact..

Much less could Spelljammer share his body with someone who would take his emotions for granteed. So he's going to wait till marriage. It's not a sure thing, but as Spelljammer likes to refer to it as.. It's "love insurance".

Don't worry so much....I've known guys that havent had a serious love relationship until they were into there middle to late 20's. And got married.

Originally posted by debbiejo
That's what they told me....And I was good...All I wanted was a big sister...That wasn't too much to ask, I don't think.....I don't think so....not for Xmas

Sorry..I didn't read the rest of the thread.

Did you ask Santa, or your parents? Because one has way more control over that situation, than does the other.

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
Did you ask Santa, or your parents? Because one has way more control over that situation, than does the other.

Well, when Santa didn't bring me a real reindeer....I figured he was good for nothing.....so..........I tried other avenues....

True stories.

actually if ur with the one u love and ur REALLY ready then there is no reason to frustrate her and yourself, just do it, i think its nicer n more exiting before marriage, and anyway, its not like gettin married will suddenly make u READY for it, thas just stupid, besides u should have expirience with a partner before u get married, and SCREW ANY DAMN RELEGIOUS OR CULTURAL NORMS THAT SAY OTHERWISE.