It amazes me, the fear or embarassment that some people live in.
One of my friends actually told me for the first time the other day that she thinks she is Bi-Sexual. I mean, that's NEVER a problem for me, infact I bet in today's society women are more likely to be liked or viewed as interesting by guys if they ARE Bi-Sexual or Lesbian. Not necessarily the way it should be but I think it's a bit better than objectifying women just coz of what YOU can do to them. At least now the objectifying has become more than being just about the guy haha.
I think it's great and rather hilarious when women say "Eh **** it. I'll like them both". It's not my preference to be anything but straight but if that's the way women or even men, wanna be, why not? Life is far too complicated to be hung up over something that is, in the grand scale of things, a small thing.
-AC
through my observations, most gays are happy, and most genetic gays will inherit gay "action" even when he is a child? Im not sure about girls, because I only know the word lesbian, since 14 or 15 years old. I came to know what gay does when I was 16, people in my school talks about it, I know about gays when I was 7 or something, that people like the same sex, but I really didn't know what they do.. I've seen gays before I knew what they do to each other, but that really didn't bother me, because I treated them like normal people.. I can't identify a gay yet at that stage..
to go back to my question, does gay girls have any gay actions? Or is Faminine, Faminine?
Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
The 😑 face had nothing to do with them. It had everything to do with you. You started by saying that you were sorry, but that you found them attractive. I was the first one to say they were a cute couple. So, you can't tell me that I didn't think they looked good together, considering I was the first one to say so.Then you went off on this tangent about me not thinking that they looked good together.
Which is where the blink/confused smiley came from...
You confuse me.
AND, you havem't answered my question. How many screen names do you have here on KMC?
I never said that you didn't think that they were a cute couple!!
Screen name? I only have this one, spidergrl, i've always only had spidergrl!! Why?
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
"I just can't stand them, they are so much trouble and everything. I just don't see a point in having a boy friend in your life, they are usless and no good. I don't see a point...... "Do you want children when you're older?
(If any of you actually see where I'm going with this, please don't jump in and ruin it. I'm not gonna tear anyone apart. Just wanna observe something).
I'm straight. However if I decided otherwise and my parents didn't like it, that's fine. They wouldn't care anyway, the most they would be is shocked and have to get used to it. It's not like your parents are gonna see you having sex regardless of what gender it's with so why anyone besides the person in question should care, is stupid.
-AC
Its alright I've been given that talk....I don't mean that Im never going to get married or anything like that! But at the time right now, I don't see the point in dating, I would much rather be out doing sport and just hanging with mates, nothing more! makes it to complicated!!
I may be younger then you!! 😕 sori if I am and Im a pain in the ass!! 😕
Originally posted by spidergrl
Its alright I've been given that talk....I don't mean that Im never going to get married or anything like that! But at the time right now, I don't see the point in dating, I would much rather be out doing sport and just hanging with mates, nothing more! makes it to complicated!!
Much better than just saying you hate guys and that they are pointless isn't it?
-AC
Originally posted by peterKSL
Why does gay exist? There is no actual meaning of it really does it? It can't help in reproducing what good is sex? ( I exclude the pleasure of sex)So that is my question for you gay people.. ask yourself.. why did gay exist? If you had a chance to choose, what would you want to be?
Well, that's a more complex question than youy might think. Knowing what I know, I would choose to be gay any day of the week. But, that's because I don't know what it's like to be straight. I mean, I have seen beautiful women, I've even slept with women. But, they just didn't do it for me emotionally....or physically. If I had no concept of attraction, then I would likely choose to be straight...like most of the other people around me.
But, this question is a luxury that only straight people have. Because how many straight guys do you know that would seriously consider this question? I mean, to ask the question at all is kind of insensative. (and I know that you didn't mean it that way.) How many straight guys would say: "Hey, I'd be gay any day of the week!"...unless they were already gay?
And for whomever it was that asked what a flammer is, it's a term used to describe an obviously gay man. A gay man that acts feminine.
The only way I could see a straight man wanting to be gay was.......if they weren't straight. Otherwise they are either curious, or bi-sexual.
Sometimes men and women experiment, don't like it and therefore remain straight. Others prefer having both, some believe that the best of their sexual experiences come from the same sex and there for decide to be gay or lesbian.
It all comes down to what you've done, not done, preference, attraction and curiousity I guess.
-AC
Originally posted by Syren
Spider, you're not a pain in the ass 😂 You're eager to learn and that's wonderful.
Thanks, I think I am 😉
Originally posted by A4E
spidergrl, i love reading ure posts they entretain me lol ure so not a pain in the ass 😊
Well at least I know Im doing something right!!
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Much better than just saying you hate guys and that they are pointless isn't it?
-AC
Yea, I didnt mean to offend any males or anything. Just something that I feel, and I know that not everyone feels the same!! 😊