Daycares an excuse or a good thing?

Started by barbarossa3 pages

Originally posted by Syren
*takes step back*

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Woah there fella, who are you to tell me who to defend? So you have children? Good for you Superman. I don't think I have at any point put someone down in order to stick up for JM, I simply see it as a shame that we have to trample enthusiasm, is all. Don't come at me like that again, especially for no reason, I really don't appreciate it 😬

I never suggested that I was parent, I just happen to know what its like seeing that I have five younger siblings. I just cannot stand someone that has no idea of what their talking about and yet refuse to admit it.

Originally posted by barbarossa
I never suggested that I was parent, I just happen to know what its like seeing that I have five younger siblings. I just cannot stand someone that has no idea of what their talking about and yet refuse to admit it.

Oh, my bad 😄 I am the oldest of four, so I can relate. She may be an only child, therefore ignorant to those experiences. It should not be held against her though.

I believe that sometimes Daycare is a good thing, but not always. My friends' mom has a three year old and that kid has spent the better part of those 3 years in daycare.
Daycare is ok if you need to take your kids somewhere while you're working. But not all day everyday like my friends mother does. I mean whats the point of having children if you're just going to drop the on someone else all the time?

Originally posted by Tkdgurl
I believe that sometimes Daycare is a good thing, but not always. My friends' mom has a three year old and that kid has spent the better part of those 3 years in daycare.
Daycare is ok if you need to take your kids somewhere while you're working. But not all day everyday like my friends mother does. I mean whats the point of having children if you're just going to drop the on someone else all the time?

Exactly! Daycare is like most other systems originally created to make life easier for some, eventually abused by most 😬

Originally posted by Syren
Oh, my bad 😄 I am the oldest of four, so I can relate. She may be an only child, therefore ignorant to those experiences. It should not be held against her though.

Its no problem. And by the way Alana says Hi.

Originally posted by barbarossa
Its no problem. And by the way Alana says Hi.

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Hi Lana.

Barb, are you psychic?

Yes, Slightly...... I'm her brother.

😂 I guessed as much 😛

Mwahahaha.

You should talk to Barakus, he's my brother. I'm assuming you're about the same age? He's 17 in just over two weeks 😄

Daycare is ok if you need to take your kids somewhere while you're working. But not all day everyday like my friends mother does
not all day everyday? Here in Norway we work all day everyday of the workweek so how could we avoid that scenario of not all day everyday?

Originally posted by Syren
Mmm, I'm getting really irked by the way most members have been treating her, she's young, she's not quite comprehending what you're all saying, but come on. I think she certainly deserves merit for her curiosity and abundant enthusiasm. I think it's rather refreshing.

Sy dear, I think the problem most are having is her abundant enthusiasm stems from a general lack of knowledge of how the real world works, and then she tries to drive her points home with little or nothing to back her up. If you go back and look JM doesnt exactly post with the sweetest of words or sentiment herself.

Youthful curiosity is one thing, but posting in such a way that clearly demonstrates that she feels the people that disagree with her are full of shit, is something else entirely. If she is going to take that stance then she has to know what type of feedback that naturally follows such postings.

I dont think anyone here hates her or anything but it's kind of like a grade school kid telling you about the ways of the world when you are in high school. How much of that opinion would you agree with? And how would you react to being told you were full of it by someone that age. See what I mean? Honestly I am not trying reprimand you because your defense of JM is sweet. But I am trying to explain the reactions that her posts got. See? 🤨

That being said, as a single mom, Ive had to use daycare. For me its been a godsend. But there are those that abuse it. Pretty much everything in life works that way.

Originally posted by barbarossa
Yes, Slightly...... I'm her brother.

Dude... You should join the Rage-aholic cult! dj

Thanks Syren for standing up for me.No I don't think any of yu guys hate me but it would be nice if you can stop puting me down just because you don't think I know too much becaues of my age.
I might not as much as you guys but I still know what I am talking about.Now that this got off topic can we please get back to the subject and drop my age please?!Thanks!JM

Originally posted by Jedi Priestess
Sy dear, I think the problem most are having is her abundant enthusiasm stems from a general lack of knowledge of how the real world works, and then she tries to drive her points home with little or nothing to back her up. If you go back and look JM doesnt exactly post with the sweetest of words or sentiment herself.

Youthful curiosity is one thing, but posting in such a way that clearly demonstrates that she feels the people that disagree with her are full of shit, is something else entirely. If she is going to take that stance then she has to know what type of feedback that naturally follows such postings.

I dont think anyone here hates her or anything but it's kind of like a grade school kid telling you about the ways of the world when you are in high school. How much of that opinion would you agree with? And how would you react to being told you were full of it by someone that age. See what I mean? Honestly I am not trying reprimand you because your defense of JM is sweet. But I am trying to explain the reactions that her posts got. See? 🤨

Well blow me down with a feather, you're absolutely right 😮 I do aplogise if I offended anyone by defending JM, but my heart went out to her, she seemed so alone and I could envision her being crushed by the KMC Massive 😛 Having just re-read some of her posts, in context, I have begun to have severe doubts as to whether she actually needs a heroine in myself 😬 Carry on 😄

Originally posted by Jackie Malfoy
Thanks Syren for standing up for me.No I don't think any of yu guys hate me but it would be nice if you can stop puting me down just because you don't think I know too much becaues of my age.
I might not as much as you guys but I still know what I am talking about.Now that this got off topic can we please get back to the subject and drop my age please?!Thanks!JM

You got spunk, kid 😉

I think its a good thing, it also allows kids to interact with other kids at a young age, make a new friend so when school rolls around, it wont be that hard at all. Plus the parents may need to work,