Should you make him/her wait?

Hmmmm.......it depends then. If you've known each other and he/she says "I'll think about it" I'd show her the door.

huh.......

i never got that treatment......

I got my bf to wait 3 years b4 we dated... thing is I didnt think He was serious about me.....

well you can talk about the seriousness of the date once you determine yes or no.

most people say yes, then invite friends and crap along. If you're going to date, then just be more specific.

But no one should have to wait for a yes or no. They should just have to wait for a "when"

3 years......damn. He must've really liked you to wait that long.

yeah.. were dating now.. he hunted me down.. he wouldnt date ne one but me and wanted a strait answer... thats when I knew he wasnt kidding

yep 3 years and at least he had to guts to ask ya out 😬

Sun Ce, this girl, you should just go for it, what do you have to lose? The worst thats gonna happen is that she'll say no and you'll feel awkward for about a week max.

Originally posted by Sun Ce
yep 3 years and at least he had to guts to ask ya out 😬

he was asking me out for three yrs I just kept saying wait and I'll let ya know I didnt think he would really wait....

Originally posted by DarkPheonix
so ask her out

he was asking me out for three yrs I just kept saying wait and I'll let ya know I didnt think he would really wait....

Oh. 😬

like i said it depends on how bad you want that particular person

Dp- it is hard to wait but patience is a virtue and if ur afraid that by pushing a person u may lose them u'll wait. it still is hard to wait, i know.

u lost ur chance then? there r other grrls tho.

Originally posted by DarkPheonix
u lost ur chance then? there r other grrls tho.

Originally posted by rogue938
like i said it depends on how bad you want that particular person

Dp- it is hard to wait but patience is a virtue and if ur afraid that by pushing a person u may lose them u'll wait. it still is hard to wait, i know.

have you let him know that you njoy his company? not exactly liking him although u do but that u like something about him or being around him. or have u alresdy told him that u like him

I do enjoy his company I just get all wierded out like I feel that I have to impress him even tho I kno I dont..... I get shy and giggly... thats just not hoo I am....

That shows you like him. 😄

O_o ur f-ing me..........

thats imposible........

..........why the b*tchy sarcasm? 😬

them just tell him some time that u enjoy his company. that leads to talking and talking is a good thing it leads to friendships and liking eachother, if ur unsure of him. u have to work extra hard at not being giggly to him. find a friend and go all giggly to them tell them all about the guy you like. and u dont have to tell him u like him in order to tell him how he affects u some times. thats a good thing to do. look closely at his replys to make sure u aren't going to far. show an intrest to yoursself in his fellings.