i'm a little sarcastic... but it would be really nice if the new members took a few minutes to read the rules and the search engine and stop making new threads when there are already others. and sometimes they get all defensive 'cause they're new. do your homework. and try the search function... it's free.
Originally posted by _Matrix_Neo_1_
When I joined people had a go at me, still do because I'm still newish, they were way mean, snobs!
No actually we had a go at you because you you didnt read the rules and you didnt listen to our advice when you broke them. Think about how we feel when we have to re-read threads that you have bumped for no aparent reason.
Its like an initiation, everyone gets it, I got it, i didnt complain im still here, everyone hates but i am 😂 jk bout the hate part.
I dunno, people often complain because they dont get treated well when theire "new" somewhere, the truth is, no one hates them or dislikes them, being rude and mean is just the way MOST, and i do mean MOST, people get to know you, your boundaries, how far they can push you, your soft spots. Everyone makes fun of the new guys at school. You think the formu is any different? ITS WORSE, because some member that might be a complete reject that no one likes in RL and has no authority in ANYTNING, might have a sudden power trip when their post count hits 10,000 and girls are drooling over his/hers pre animated sense of humor and fake pic, and all of a sudden they decide they own the place. Let them make fun, MOST of us dont mean anything by it. I know I USUALLY dont 😉