Why are men more scared of homosexuals than women?

Started by Snoopbert12 pages

It was subjective, and there is no wrong/right subjective arguement.

Originally posted by silver_tears
I think it has alot to do with appearance actually, admit it, women look alot better naked than men do, so therefore two women naked, much more appealing that two men naked. Plus it's the ultimate fantasy for a guy imo, his girlfriend, and her hot room mate.

I disagree 😬 IMO a well built man (just well built, not hulky) is just as attractive as a nice curvalicious woman. Take a look at male sculptures and you'll understand. There's a stereotype of women being the beautiful sex and men being the strong sex. While i agree that most men are indeed stronger than women, beauty is something that's in the eye of the beholder. Not something that society should tell you. I mean hell....i'd do Johnny Depp droolio

As to the initial question of why lesbians are more generally accepted than gays......I'd say it's mostly because of a lack of tolerance towards male homosexuality. Nothing to do with whether a gender generally looks better than the other, but more to do with lack of acceptance.

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Holy crap......triple post icon5

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Sorry bout the triple post......must be that crap that happened a while ago where your posts don't show and don't show, and then they all come tumbling down 🙁

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How'd that happen?

Originally posted by Bardock42
I have to agree that I beölief so, and that probably most odf Society would agree....but it's not real....we inherited this belief from our parents, friends, teachers and what not......
But your arguement is right.....

Yes, you are right, I wanted to post something along the same lines.

Not every society thinks the same way about this. For an obvious example look at the ancient Greeks...or Michelangelo's sculpture. Also, its not as socially acceptable for women to speak (in mixed company) about men's bodies. Men aren't objectified as often to be thought of just for their bodies. There are a lot of reasons. In a way its kind of acceptable for both men and women to sort of downplay men's bodies...but like silver tears said, the population keeps growing.

The fact that female sexuality is used to sell almost everything these days affects both men and women.

Personally, I cannot stand the recent fake pop version of lesbianism (e.g. Madonna & Britney Spears) where women kiss etc. just because it is "cool." It's irksome, just like other affectations. Anything where people try to hard to be cool or sexy kind of annoys me. Its a stereotype really, for guys to say "two women, hot!" It's like guys thinking a woman is attractive only because she has blonde hair or big breast. Sure some guys like those but these things alone do not sexiness make. Just seems like a pop phenomenon.

Originally posted by Snoopbert
How'd that happen?

Was a problem on the boards a while ago like this. The post wouldn't show up, so you'd get pissed and post it again and again. And then all your previous posts would come tumbling down 🙁

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Originally posted by seaapple
Yes, you are right, I wanted to post something along the same lines.

Not every society thinks the same way about this. For an obvious example look at the ancient Greeks...or Michelangelo's sculpture.

Originally posted by Wickerman
I disagree 😬 IMO a well built man (just well built, not hulky) is just as attractive as a nice curvalicious woman. Take a look at male sculptures and you'll understand.

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Originally posted by Wickerman
I disagree 😬 IMO a well built man (just well built, not hulky) is just as attractive as a nice curvalicious woman. Take a look at male sculptures and you'll understand. There's a stereotype of women being the beautiful sex and men being the strong sex. While i agree that most men are indeed stronger than women, beauty is something that's in the eye of the beholder. Not something that society should tell you. I mean hell....i'd do Johnny Depp droolio

As to the initial question of why lesbians are more generally accepted than gays......I'd say it's mostly because of a lack of tolerance towards male homosexuality. Nothing to do with whether a gender generally looks better than the other, but more to do with lack of acceptance.

~wickerman~


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(well, maybe not the Johnny Depp part... 😉)

Originally posted by seaapple
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(well, maybe not the Johnny Depp part...)

😂 i was making a point 😉

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Originally posted by Snoopbert
It was subjective, and there is no wrong/right subjective arguement.

No actually if we are talking aboot why it is more accepted there are multiple right answers.....

I know, i just added a wink to my previous post to show it!

Originally posted by Wickerman
😂 i was making a point 😉

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What if I were to say I've got Johnny Depp on the phone right now and he's interested? naughty 😆

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
What if I were to say I've got Johnny Depp on the phone right now and he's interested? naughty 😆

Then i'd be interested as well i spose 😬

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Am I right in assuming that homophobia in general, and especially towards male homosexuals, is more common in men than women? If so then I do think that male egocentricity plays quite a big role in the lack of acceptance of male homosexuals.

Originally posted by Snoopbert
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1) Lesbian girls cannot be bi-sexual at the same time. They are either one or the either.

2) This is a serious discussion, try and keep it as such without going "OMFG LESBOS Turn me the f00k on!"

agreed with the first 😕

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
Am I right in assuming that homophobia in general, and especially towards male homosexuals, is more common in men than women? If so then I do think that male egocentricity plays quite a big role in the lack of acceptance of male homosexuals.

now now......no generalizations nono

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Which is why I asked if it was an appropriate assumption.

You would be right, I think its primarily younger man trying to be cool. At least in this country, when people get older or when they talk about it in a serious manner suddenly they don't care anymore. But when they are not really serious then gay man just suck.

But that could be just this country, nobody I know really hates homosexuals, some people joke about it but thats about it. Still its far more common when man do it then when woman do it.

I believe Male bodies are very beautiful...but wouldn't want to see two males going at it....

Seeing women does nothing for me.