Why are men more scared of homosexuals than women?

Started by Capt_Fantastic12 pages

The question really addresses the inequities in the way males and females are viewed.(By males) Historically, I think female homosexuality has been accepted on the basis that women ARE more weak and less capable of controling their actions. That's the unfair aspect of this situation...for both women and gay men. But, I guess it really comes down to the fact that "masculinity" in it's "traditionally accepted" sense, isn't threatened by two women having sex. What could be less masculine than two women having sex, right? What could be more masculine than being turned on by it, however?

Johnny Depp looks enough like a woman............I'd do him.

Originally posted by Evil Dead
Johnny Depp looks enough like a woman............I'd do him.

DUDE!!!! SICK!!!! 😘........................................................you are married.

Hey if your gonna do a guy whether you're male, female, straight or gay... it might as well be Johnny Depp...

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
Hey if your gonna do a guy... it might as well be Johnny Depp...

We are getting back to the Family Guy debate.........

I'd do him...

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
I'd do him...

That's ok........I'D prefer Ewan Mc Gregor though droolio

So we've established that everyone would do Johnny Depp 😂 this has been a constructive day.

Are you suprised? Women have always been seen under a judgmental eye throughout history, because homosexuality reverses the roles, lesbians are seen through a more rose coloured eye then the gay-male population. I forgot who said it, but it is completely true.

Women are the world's ******.
Originally posted by xmarksthespot
Am I right in assuming that homophobia in general, and especially towards male homosexuals, is more common in men than women? If so then I do think that male egocentricity plays quite a big role in the lack of acceptance of male homosexuals.

I think it has a lot to do with the male anatomy; when gay men have sex one of them'll have to take what's commonly thought of as the 'female' position, that is, the one being penetrated. this compromises the idea of male sexuality as being only 'active' and 'outgoing', so to say, and remind men of this more 'passive', 'feminine' and less acceptable part of their sexuality/body.

women, on the other hand, can never really take the 'male' position when having sex. two women going at it can only keep reminding the vouyeur that they're very definite women. ( I'm hereby agreeing with capt_fantastic.)

to top all of this I think that women are more thought of as a gender than men. men are just men, their sexuality is part of this, which is why any hint that their sexuality can be 'feminized' threatenes their entire identity. women, on the other hand, have a gender which is seperate from their personality; they can take the part of sexual objects without having to include their personalities.

Originally posted by Bardock42
That's ok........I'D prefer Ewan Mc Gregor though droolio

you have good taste droolio

😛

Originally posted by bilb
you have good taste droolio

😛

Thanks...I try to keep in touch with my feminine side......and she wants Ewan.....

Anyways I think Line brought up some really good points that ight be the cause of this double standard......that penetration is not common for a male in Heterosexual Intercourse (please don't tell me what you guys do with your girlfriend/wife/hooker I really don't want to know.....I think of this as the classic notion of sex....)

Another thing ight be that guys view themself as the dominant part and that the female is ranked lower so if a guy takes the female part he gives up this doinance...while when girls have lesbian sex they actually take some of that dominance....(actually cut that...I am myself not even sure how I meant that.....I let people talk that know what they are talking aboot again....)

Originally posted by Snoopbert
Why is it like this in our society? Is it because our political world is basically filled with men? Or because of the porn industry? This question stems from the fact I cannot have a "GAY-UNIT" signature, but there are people here who have had Lesbian signatures.

I don't get why lesbians are more accepted than gays in a technical way; they are pretty much the same and I'll treat them one and the same.

I've heard that the Nazis treated gay men the same way as Jews, but not lesbians. So yes, historically, lesbians have been more culturally accepted than gay men.

Damn those Nazis!

Women are lot less homophobic than men, look how often girls touch each others in school, boys keep the distance.

I keep distance because I don't want men touching my equipment.

I've got nothing against homosexuals.

-AC

i think gay women are accepted more than gay men generally because it is seen as more "normal" for them to be more touchy-feely and hugging each other just as freinds then it is for two men who are freinds, so if 2 women start a relationship its less of a change of freindship. Not ithat i think this is right or fair, beacuse I don't. I think gay men should be accepted just the same as gay women. The fact is that they have the same thing in common-they are attracted to their own gender, which means they should be treated just the same. Sadly, it seems to me that gay men are much more often the victims of predjudice than gay women, which is totally unfair.

Gay in any shape or form is wrong. And they should all be eliminated.

I'd rather have a planet full of gays than people like you.

-AC