Eating Disorders

My friend has a book about Eating Disorders some of the things are really sad 🙁

its not about feeling secure, I'm a very confident person, I just want to be a THIN confident person!

Well, I am not trying to plead expertise, but if some muppet calling you fat makes you uncontrollably starve yourself, it does look like being a little insecure about weight specifically.

But regardless, I wish I could help you in general then.

its really not that I'm insecure, I have tons of friends and I'm one of the most popular girls at school. I just want to be thin, it's not that I feel that I am weak or something because I'm fat, I just don't want to be fat

But it is only when other people accuse you of it is is a problem, right?

Can you define why you want to be thin?

I just want to

its like asking "why do you want to be an actress?"

I just do

I see...

(scratches head again)

I'm hopeless...

I wanna look like models too 😛
Well actually I don't and Phoe don't be too down, after all Marylin Monroe was a size 16 😎 I still think others shouldn't bother you, and if you're hungry just go for it.

Yeah, but u want to because u think it's cool... right ?

😂 ush... that's funny 😂

Originally posted by rusky
Yeah, but u want to because u think it's cool... right ?

no, I don't want to be cool, its boring

u really think so ?

It's a start 😉

*sympathizes with Phoe* 😖

i think you just should think like "i wanna be a thin person". Granted, that's the starting point of any diet. but just don't be obsessed with that. Eat regularly, that's important, even if you want to lose weight. Eating must never be shameful...
Just concentrate on some aims, such as not eating sauce with food, having well-balanced meal (that will be difficult if you're still a veggie)

And no, models aren't the perfect women. Sometimes they don't even look like women ! So skinny...

It is also important to try and eat healty food, so to speak..

See... I suspect just trying to give healthy eating tips really does not get to the heart of the matter.

Originally posted by Phoenix
eating with other people cos they make me eat properly.

but theres very few people who I will actually eat in front of, which is probably why I used to binge eat. between teenage girls, eating is sorta shameful, even at sleepovers, when we have three tubs of ice-cream and a bag of popcorn between five girls, very little of it will actually be eaten

I'm not ashamed of eating infront of anyone, how old are you?

Don't mean to be rude 🙂

I eat healthily and I excersise, I do sit-ups etc... but at night.... sometimes I fall asleep halfway through... lol

I eat in front of anyone who's with me 😕
Like at a restaurant and all, of course people know you eat, so do they, nothing to be ashamed of. ❌

But we are missing the big picture, Phoe, an actress and a sex symbol of the states for many years, Marylin Monroe was a size 16 so don't think skinny is always best, plus I have experienced that guys prefer curves to bones 😖

Ok, i know i'm posting massively now, but I have something I want to get accross.

I think that the fact that they have this whole "obesity epidemic" kinda makes more people worry that they'll become obese so they try to prevent it from happening..

that's the way I see it, I fear that I'll one day be the sixe of a house, and I want to prevent it.

😂 It really doesn't work does it ? 😄