Re: sexual education?!
Originally posted by s|mchildren are naturally curious about the opposite sex from a very early age. my daughters from the age of around 4 began asking questions like "why am i different from him" or "mommy how did the baby get in your tummy to grow."
Do you think it's 'normal' for children under the age of 10 to learn such things in school, or even kindergarten ๐?
Plz debate (I, for one, think it's wrong, they're too young)....
from experience , i know its best for you to be open to answering these questions as they ask them. not wait till a so called 'right' age to answer them. however you dont go into detail with a 5 year old on how reproduction is accomplished either...there are ways of giving them age appropriate as needed information to satisfy them till they get a little older and want want more info. at the kindergarten level im not sure it should be taught in school. it should come from mommies and daddies at that age.
but i know this, if it is being taught in a school somewhere that young, the parents are signing the permission form in order for their child to be taught the info and on the form it will have the content to the lesson being taught. so obviously its 'normal' to them.
Well really young children that are about 5 or so are always curious about where babies come from and all that and you should tell them about sex but just like vaguely (sp?) not the full thing of it. Then when youre about 9 or 10 you start to just hear things about sex and realise like what it is and then you get taught about it when you're like 12 over here but by that time you already know what it is anyway. And what you said about lying peterKSL, well parents lie about santa claus hahaha so ya know, but i dont think they should lie i just think they should briefly say what it is and where babies come from and then get taught more about it when they're about 12.
i told my daughters when they asked where babies came from that a special seed that only makes babies is planted inside of mommies baby pouch. in my opinion, it was age appropriate and they didnt ask anymore questions till they got older. except for my daughter josephine who is now 7. she wanted to go to Wal-Mart to buy some seeds that make little brothers. ๐
Originally posted by Leggy_n_Merry
Well really young children that are about 5 or so are always curious about where babies come from and all that and you should tell them about sex but just like vaguely (sp?) not the full thing of it. Then when youre about 9 or 10 you start to just hear things about sex and realise like what it is and then you get taught about it when you're like 12 over here but by that time you already know what it is anyway. And what you said about lying peterKSL, well parents lie about santa claus hahaha so ya know, but i dont think they should lie i just think they should briefly say what it is and where babies come from and then get taught more about it when they're about 12.
Actually I had the thought of it on Christmas eve, that what if children really hoped with all their heart that santa would come and visit them, and then they are disappointed on christmas day that Santa didn't come, and they would just suicide or do something foolish, like in search for santa!!! THey show that on TV!!! STUPID!!!...
If they're old enough to ask, they're old enough to be told.... mind, at our school, it didn't get taught till you were 15... we were taught by a born again Christian who said..."You shouldn't be doing it, so i'm teaching you nothing..." we then used the eight weeks of sex-ed lessons to do homework....
10 years old is a bit young to be teaching a kid about sex. however there are some very precocious children at that age, so sometimes it needs to be takin on a case by case basis, but thats unrealistic in school. teaching children around that age the general concept of what sex is is sufficient, but going into detail is alil overboard. thats more of 12 13 type of thing