Just friends

KK, me and my gf broke up on feb 16. We were dating for 4 months. i called her 2day, and asked her if we could still be friends. She was happy towards the idea, and said thats what she wanted. But i've neva been in this situation b4, with the whole 'Just friends" deal. I need some help ppl. Help a brotha out. ( I'm white, but i like talking black). lol.

Depending on how strong your feelings are for her, it'll be easier or harder to be "just friends".

-AC

If you think this will work imagine sitting the couch just you her and her new boyfriend still comfortable leave this whole situation behind you and you'll be happeir trust experience here.

Someone always gets hurt.

That's not true no2

Originally posted by ElvesRule24/7
KK, me and my gf broke up on feb 16. We were dating for 4 months. i called her 2day, and asked her if we could still be friends. She was happy towards the idea, and said thats what she wanted. But i've neva been in this situation b4, with the whole 'Just friends" deal. I need some help ppl. Help a brotha out. ( I'm white, but i like talking black). lol.

Originally posted by ABS420
If you think this will work imagine sitting the couch just you her and her new boyfriend still comfortable leave this whole situation behind you and you'll be happeir trust experience here.

Well me and my bf just broke up yeterday. We are suppose to be just friends, but i dont know what to tell you because im lost as well.

Just try to be nice, and if you still have feelings for her then it might be hard.

hmmmmm ya, well i still like her. But i understand thats it over. So i wont try and make a move. But she's still single.

If that's what she wanted, that means she needs some space. Today is February 22nd. If by March 8th you guys aren't back together, then move on.

In the meantime, ask her for a "date" this Friday night (today's Tuesday) where you pick her up and take her to dinner and then bring her home and that's it. Do not see or speak to her between the time you set the date and when you go on it. Trust me, it works b/c I've been in the situation before. You and her will actually look forward to the date in a whole new light and it won't be the "same old" times hanging out.

you may try, everything depends on personal issues

but for example one of my friends claim that there is no such a think like friendship between guy and girl.

Girls that try to make guys suffer by trying to "still be friends" right after breaking up deserve to be kicked in the face by golf cleats.

What you do is avoid her at all costs, a "friend" relationship after an actual relationship is going to cause you nothing but pain and trouble.

If you're really interested in being friends with her in the long run.....then just walk away from her. This works best if you go to the same school or work together. After a couple of weeks or months (however long it takes for you to completely get over her) when you "run into" eachother things won't be as awkward as when you tried to force the friendship when what you really wanted was the relationship to never end.

Sats situation is a fairly common one.

Being a woman's plutonic friend is like being a penis in a jar. "break incase of emergency"

Link is correct. I tried to force friendship (we did both want it) and it got me nowhere by Awkwardville USA.

Luckily I rectified the problem and we stopped talking for a while. Now things are ok.

-AC

Originally posted by ABS420
If you think this will work imagine sitting the couch just you her and her new boyfriend still comfortable leave this whole situation behind you and you'll be happeir trust experience here.

YOU STOLE MY AVATAR...!!!!

ARGH...

Originally posted by ElvesRule24/7
KK, me and my gf broke up on feb 16. We were dating for 4 months. i called her 2day, and asked her if we could still be friends. She was happy towards the idea, and said thats what she wanted. But i've neva been in this situation b4, with the whole 'Just friends" deal. I need some help ppl. Help a brotha out. ( I'm white, but i like talking black). lol.

I believe both of you need more time.. Just take your time, and when the time is right, blurp your heart out... 😉

In my experience you can only be friends with a girl if there are no sexual/romantic feelings there otherwise it just leads to more heartache, a lot of people say the lets still be friends line but they rarely mean it

well said smoker4

I think the whole "lets still be friends" line is used when a relationship just doesn't "work out."

Neither person did something heinous to get dumped by the other...but the feelings that were once there are now gone.

Personally, I think the whole "lets be friends" line is used by people who don't want the animosity that some break ups carry around aftwards. Most times they don't want to be close friends...they just don't want to be enemies.

To abondon someone you greatly love is like abondoning your family members...

Thanks finti, lets be friends 😂

Originally posted by ElvesRule24/7
KK, me and my gf broke up on feb 16. We were dating for 4 months. i called her 2day, and asked her if we could still be friends. She was happy towards the idea, and said thats what she wanted. But i've neva been in this situation b4, with the whole 'Just friends" deal. I need some help ppl. Help a brotha out. ( I'm white, but i like talking black). lol.

just act normally around her.
the only difference now is that you two arent snogging or shagging anymore.