i have the book next to me
i quote:
the smoky shadow of a young woman withlong hair fell to the groundas bertha had done , straightened up, and looked at him.....and harry, his arms shaking madly now looked backinto the ghostly face of his mother
your farther's coming ...she said quietly. he wantsto see you... it will be alright... hold on
OK, some clarification. In the first edition of Book 4, the editors messed it up and put the echoes in the wrong order. In the later editions it is corrected and James was indeed killed first. Also note that Harry heard the Phoenix song for the SECOND and not the third time in his life. That is also corrected in later editions. The early US versions on PoA made a mistake; they said that Voldemort has been in hiding for 15 instead of 12 years. I presume this has been corrected too.