Is it perverse to have a crush or obsession over a fictional character?

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Originally posted by LordFear
I have a friend that has a mad on for certain anime chicks.
The dude is bordeline insane over it. Walls, notebook, car, everything covered with anime babes. Is that healthy?
i'd call it fascination...😕

Does the fictional character have to be animated? 'Cause about 10 years ago I used to have a crush on Clarissa from Clarissa Explains it All. The character on the show, not Melissa.

When you open your comic and something like this is in it:

or this

of course its ok to say its attractive, why not, its drawn for that specific purpose... no its not real, its a comic...

I ain't trying to beef or rain on your parade, but Personally, Ithink that some of the little chicks are cute.
But!!!!!!!!! I don't advise you to obese over them..That is sick!!!!

They are anime,nothing more, man. Don't turn into some D#@n wierd-a$$ dude with all kind of anime chick posters and stuff.
That is not healthy for you, man.
If you have a problem getting REAL CHICKS, just spit game to girls with low-self esteem. Trust me, it works like h#ll, man.

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Originally posted by jplatinum
I ain't trying to beef or rain on your parade, but Personally, Ithink that some of the little chicks are cute.
But!!!!!!!!! I don't advise you to obese over them..That is sick!!!!

They are anime,nothing more, man. Don't turn into some D#@n wierd-a$$ dude with all kind of anime chick posters and stuff.
That is not healthy for you, man.
If you have a problem getting REAL CHICKS, just spit game to girls with low-self esteem. Trust me, it works like h#ll, man.

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Pr1983,
why are you confused?

I was simply telling the brotha that it is okay to think that the little chick is attrctive-looking cause that is what they are drawn to be, but don't turn into some weirdo over them.

That is bad for him, un healthy for him.
I'm just trying to give the brotha some advise, man.
Pr1983, don't be a smart-allic all your life,dude.
I'm just trying to give the brotha some good advise.

Btw. Whats' wrong with spitting game(macking) to a girl with low-self esteem. H#ll, at least shes' REAL. At least its gets me some po tang.
As long as you treat the girl right, its' all good.

Stop being such a smart-allic.

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Dudes, I just wanna make this clear that I am NOT the one having this issue. I have a girl (flesh and bone) and do the nasty with her whenever I please(anyway I digress) But I do KNOW someone, a friend who by today's standard would be termed a geek, and he is obsessed with anime and some comic book chicks. I mean he would rather surf the net downloading pics and building websites honoring these cyber chicks then hang out at 7/11 or go to the mall to try and pick REAL babes. I am kinda scared for him, you know???But I posted this just to make sure that I wasn't the one tripping and that this might turn into something real unhealthy.

Hey Lord fear,
I wasn't talkin' about you, dude.
I was talkin' about your friend/any other cats like him.
I believe you when you say you got friends who be obesed over the chicks. I wasn't talkin' 'bout you, man.

You know what I'm sayin'.
Btw.
LordFear, try taking your homeboy to somewhere where there aren't alot of people to hate on his game. Spot a chick by herself that seems to be pretty down-to-earth and run interfernce for him(meaning put in a good word for him with the girl) show her your friend and tell her he is looking at her, but he is intimated to talk to her cause she is so beautiful. Then, she'll start blushin' and sh#t, Then, She'll go over to him on her own out of curiousity and flattery. Once she is over there, its' up to him to seal-the-deal.

Teach your boy how to pit game to the ladies,man.
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Why would it be perverse?

I dont think so - its a phrase and it will pass.

One thing though jplatinum!!!
How can I teach him to seal the deal?
He is a true geek who really knows nothing but Star-Trek, Internet, Math and The Wonderful world of insects and creepy crawlers.
You think there is hope for him?

Re: Is it perverse to have a crush or obsession over a fictional character?

Originally posted by LordFear
I have a friend that has a mad on for certain anime chicks.
The dude is bordeline insane over it. Walls, notebook, car, everything covered with anime babes. Is that healthy?

It can be unhealty but a upseccison is fine if it is loving a cartoon or a movie or a chactor very much.I see nothering wrong with that.JM 😍

Originally posted by jplatinum
Pr1983,
why are you confused?

I was simply telling the brotha that it is okay to think that the little chick is attrctive-looking cause that is what they are drawn to be, but don't turn into some weirdo over them.

That is bad for him, un healthy for him.
I'm just trying to give the brotha some advise, man.
Pr1983, don't be a smart-allic all your life,dude.
I'm just trying to give the brotha some good advise.

Btw. Whats' wrong with spitting game(macking) to a girl with low-self esteem. H#ll, at least shes' REAL. At least its gets me some po tang.
As long as you treat the girl right, its' all good.

Stop being such a smart-allic.

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Be 😎

i didnt understand who you were talking to, thats all... i was not being a smart alec... at all... so dont accuse me of it...

It's not fair to criticise people who have low-esteem when it comes to meeting real women. Especially people who may not have the confidence or the looks to catch attention from women. People like this having obsessions about unreal characters are merely escaping from the depression of having no-one and having to suffice with a personality or look created on the page rather than face the truth that they won't find anyone who will love them for who they are.

Originally posted by Lord Shadow Z
It's not fair to criticise people who have low-esteem when it comes to meeting real women. Especially people who may not have the confidence or the looks to catch attention from women. People like this having obsessions about unreal characters are merely escaping from the depression of having no-one and having to suffice with a personality or look created on the page rather than face the truth that they won't find anyone who will love them for who they are.

thats cold dude... 😛

They draw these girls with enormous, exposed breasts, tight butts, and nearly flawless facial features because they want you to be attracted by them.

Being obsessed isn't healthy, but finding them attractive is perfectly human.

^agreed

Having a crush is normal. I had a crush on Inuyasha 😮

Spoiler:
and spongebob
but it's just weird to have an obsession over something that not real.

Spongebob....😖

Right...and I'm the one who smokes crack.

He makes me laugh!

Why, huh Broken Wing, listen people tell me I have a killer sense of humor. Let's hook up and I'll make you laugh all the time, dollface.
No but seriously, SpongeBob???
Well anyway my friend does have a low-esteem issue like LordShadow said.
I feel like he is growing increasingly more distant from reality and is actually developing some kind of phobia of the opposite sex.
I think he has a genuine fear of women or being in close proximity to them.
Reason why????I don't know because he comes from a well rounded family at least to me it appears well rounded.

I'm sure you have a great sense of humor 😄