Is it possible....

Started by silver_tears4 pages

Is it possible....

.....to be happy and content if you're not society's definition of beautiful?

I mean if you think about it everything is based on looks ๐Ÿ˜ฌ
Like even online, people don't message you in those chat things unless you're attractive ๐Ÿคจ

Idiots base everything on looks.

Sadly, looks help in society. Thankfully, those are areas of society I'll never ever be a part of.

-AC

It really bothers me ๐Ÿ˜’

Like I have those accounts, and the stupidest people message me *le sigh* ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

being happy with yourself is the only beauty a person really needs

yeah i guess so..

The people that count are the ones who see what's great about YOU not how you look. If beauty's one of your strong points then hey, that's fine, but if its not then you can still have other great things about you.
Beauty's just another characteristic. Not everyone's shallow.
Be proud of yourself๐Ÿ™‚

i'm so sorry irene, but you can't do anything about the fact that they all find you atractive

See the sad thing is, and I'm not being concieted or anything, but I think I'm alright looking, but then I pick up like a cosmo and feel like 500 pounds fat ๐Ÿ˜’

I've always thought... that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And online all you really see is the typing... so online, your seeing someone's personality.... and the personality is the most attractive thing i think.... because A woman could be so beautiful you couldn't believe it... but if she had a rotten personality.... then her looks mean nothing...

Originally posted by Clovie
i'm so sorry irene, but you can't do anything about the fact that they all find you atractive

see clovie you might think it's all that to be gorgeous, and I'm not saying I am, but that's all people see, and you get the sleaziest most vile people trying to get your attention....

it's not very pleasant to be propositioned for sex when you're out shopping with your mom ๐Ÿ™„

ouch thats really happened to you before Irene... that sucks

Wait...

You do realise that nearly all of the photos you see in those magazines have been photoshopped and edited to hell, right?

Jesus. I'm not proud of my looks, but I get ALOT of female attention, strong female attention. It always puzzles me, then I think "Wait...maybe it's because of who I am." Because Irene, if everything came down to looks, I wouldn't get the attention I do. That's a FACT.

Don't read Cosmo and feel fat, because half those girls are A) Nowhere near as attractive as you and B) I dare say nowhere near as healthy.

On that note, don't read Cosmo. Just don't read it. It's shit. De-moralising, self-esteem destroying garbage.

-AC

Originally posted by silver_tears
see clovie you might think it's all that to be gorgeous, and I'm not saying I am, but that's all people see, and you get the sleaziest most vile people trying to get your attention....

it's not very pleasant to be propositioned for sex when you're out shopping with your mom ๐Ÿ™„

i have no idea if it is pleasent or not..(but i have a feeling i wouldn't like it) coz it never happened/will happen to me ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

but you have a point there.

Originally posted by Jedi_KnightAlly
I've always thought... that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And online all you really see is the typing... so online, your seeing someone's personality.... and the personality is the most attractive thing i think.... because A woman could be so beautiful you couldn't believe it... but if she had a rotten personality.... then her looks mean nothing...

yes, a personality should stand out the most. It's definitely the most important. someone can be as gorgeous as you want but if they are concided no one will want to be around them.

Originally posted by silver_tears
see clovie you might think it's all that to be gorgeous, and I'm not saying I am, but that's all people see, and you get the sleaziest most vile people trying to get your attention....

it's not very pleasant to be propositioned for sex when you're out shopping with your mom ๐Ÿ™„

lol

just try and ignore those people...

they're just out to try and get sex cuz they're pathetic people

personality isnt worth a penny in real life...

Originally posted by a1hsauce
ouch thats really happened to you before Irene... that sucks

I was so disgusted, I gave the freak the worst glare ๐Ÿ˜‚

not all of us are pathetic i for one stick up for women and defend them....aka Clovie

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Wait...

You do realise that nearly all of the photos you see in those magazines have been photoshopped and edited to hell, right?

Jesus. I'm not proud of my looks, but I get ALOT of female attention, strong female attention. It always puzzles me, then I think "Wait...maybe it's because of who I am." Because Irene, if everything came down to looks, I wouldn't get the attention I do. That's a FACT.

Don't read Cosmo and feel fat, because half those girls are A) Nowhere near as attractive as you and B) I dare say nowhere near as healthy.

On that note, don't read Cosmo. Just don't read it. It's shit. De-moralising, self-esteem destroying garbage.

-AC

I completely agree, but the sad thing is don't you ever get like jealous pangs and such when you see like Paul Walker or whoever on screen all buff and like perfect?

I mean I know it's all editted and stuff, but when you have like 90 percent of men drooling over it, it's hard to ignore right? ๐Ÿ˜‚

Originally posted by JLred
personality isnt worth a penny in real life...

I seriously think it does. I've meet any nice cute guys and guys who are cute and are complelety annoying. Having a nice personality givies them more appeal.